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[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Ikr gives me a chuckle because it would be in character lol

Shes not malicious, shes just oblivious and incapable of taking care of herself

That makes it more difficult, maybe help her understand and to ask for help if need be to get used to chipping in with chores. Maybe get a chores board if need be. Hopefully she'll listen when you have the meeting. I Hope things improve there anyhow, I always try to help too and it can be hard sometimes if people get defensive.

[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

help her understand and to ask for help if need be to get used to chipping in with chores. Maybe get a chores board if need be.

Weve tried lea-sad weve been trying for the past 3 months. She says she understands and then just doesnt do anything. She wont even clean up the carpet when her cats vomit or poo on it. And like, i want her to have the tools to be a good roommate, but i cant take someone (whose twice my age) under my wing and become their caretaker. :(

[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yeah that's on her she should be cleaning it.. and you shouldn't be expected to be a caretaker either.

I would give this feedback to her and maybe discuss with your other room mates to give her an ultimatum, especially if this has been an ongoing thing.

[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, we are hopefully getting through slowly and surely, but its a slog and were all doing like twice as much work to accommodate her sadness but it will be resolved eventually.

[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yeah that is a tricky situation, I do hope it improves because it isn't fair on everyone else.