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[–] nonexcludable 1 points 1 year ago

The community is set to only allow mod posts.

And I am here, if needs be. Although the community is not being actively used, it's not abandoned.

[–] nonexcludable 1 points 1 year ago

Woolwich here, not too far afield.

[–] nonexcludable 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I finally at the age of 38 managed to buy a home with my wife last year. It's a small 2-bed terraced on the outskirts of London.

We got very, very lucky. We managed to get a mortgage at 3.1%. At the time, it seemed like the worst financial decision ever. I'd never heard of someone paying such a high rate.

But 100%, if we had waited, we'd never have the affordability to buy this year.

 

Do you rent a flat or a house and, if so, where?

Do you live with family or flatmates?

Are you trying to buy a home? How's that going?

[–] nonexcludable 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It wasn't intended to read that way. If I could lock it, I would have done, but it wasn't obvious to me how to do that (at least on mobile). I'll take a look tonight.

Otherwise I plan to let it sit there, at least for the moment. If Tom feels that's not okay, he can take action obviously and de-mod me or delete the community.

In the meantime, I don't plan to leave this wider community personally.

[–] nonexcludable 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I am really happy to see this, and props to Tom for making it happen.

I have some minor anxiety down the line about Reddit claiming the URL due to the similarity with their trademark. Am I being paranoid?

[–] nonexcludable 3 points 1 year ago (5 children)

FWIW, I agree that poaching generic names like c/London, c/UnitedKingdom, or c/CasualUK is a dick move if you don't plan to do anything with them. But I think our subreddit name is unique enough, that the only reason anyone would use it would be to associate themselves with the community that was already developed.

Also, we have like 70 mods - we decided a long time ago that anyone who organised a couple of meetups can be a mod if they want. So it's not a closed shop. Knowing people IRL allows for that trust. So it's as true a representation of our community as could be.

[–] nonexcludable 2 points 1 year ago

I replied to your post about this.

[–] nonexcludable 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

Hi all, I am guilty of this, and I think this post is about me mostly!

I do understand the points you've raised. The subreddit that I (along with a few IRL friends I met through r/London) started back in 2010 was focussed on meet-ups in London. It's called LondonSocialClub.

It has a specific ideology - radically inclusive for anyone over 18. There's a mod team that has developed trust and a community of people who know each other - (now scattered across Whatsapp groups that sprung from events posted on the subreddit.)

We're not a normal mod team dealing with usual Reddit stuff. For example, we've had small groups deciding to ban people from events who have been accused of sexual harassment. And other IRL stuff needed our involvement.

The community isn't big enough to split, I think it would break up if it tried.

I'm not a super active mod anymore, but I would be gutted if Reddit went to shit and someone else started a community using the name and brand, but running it counter to my values and what I think are the values of others in the community.

I'd be totally pro someone starting a separate London meetup community on here, just don't want the name poached.

[–] nonexcludable 5 points 1 year ago
[–] nonexcludable 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I remember ten years ago sharing beers with admins who visited London. Back when there was a push for developing local communities and Global Reddit Meetup Day. There was good vibes and a feeling of mutual respect.

I met my wife through Reddit.

I still have so much affection for the site in my heart.

It's just wild to me how much has changed.

Really glad I never got that Snoo tattoo now.

[–] nonexcludable 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

r/TIHI is also unmoderated along with r/mildlyinteresting and r/interestingasfuck. Is that new?

[–] nonexcludable 38 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Jesus, this is escalating fast. I never actually thought admins would go to such crazy lengths. Such pathetic desperation!

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by nonexcludable to c/londonsocialclub
 

Hi all, as someone who founded r/LondonSocialClub (a place for IRL meet-ups in London) along with a few friends many moons ago, the current clusterfuck at Reddit threatens the community where I met my wife and loads of my closest friends.

There is no appetite at the moment for our inclusive subreddit to move off the grid to the fediverse, but I wanted to put a stake in the ground, just in case.

Edit:

I understand why this is bothersome for some people, but I think this is a reasonable action to take:

  • The community name is unique. I don't think it's plausible that another user would want to use this name except to associate themselves with our pre-existing community.

  • This isn't intended to prevent people from starting another community with the same or similar aim. I'd be delighted to see c/LondonMeetups or anything else pop up. I just don't want them to use our name. More people hanging with people is always good.

Otherwise, I plan to stick around this instance. I'm pretty done with Reddit now, and I hope in the future many other people feel the same way.

<3

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