kaxora

joined 1 year ago
[–] kaxora@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I see. Thank you very much for the info. Hopefully the mess gets cleaned up soon. It's such a weird thing for someone to do

[–] kaxora@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

You mean Ruud? What should be done now? What are the implications

[–] kaxora@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I agree with your last bit- I love that Buddhism is tolerant of other ways of thinking and religions. It seems to acknowledge that everyone has their own karma and way of doing things, so we shouldn't try to "convert" everyone to Buddhism, perhaps they will gain realizations or become happy by some other religion or philosophy etc. It speaks for itself, I appreciate that Buddhists don't try to convert others.

As for the first part, I was daydreaming about something recently and then remembered that life itself is said to be an illusion. We need to get by using subjective labels and concepts. Of course those are necessary and we need them to function in the world, but it's important to recognize that they are just labels in order to see reality for what it is. If life itself is a delusion of sorts, daydreaming during my free time is like a delusion within a delusion. Spending time fantasizing about something that isn't real, when so much of my life experience itself is exaggerated or imbued with too-strong emotions and is thus not "real" either. That's not to say that daydreaming is bad or anything, because the "good" or "bad" judgement is also a label, but it's better to at least be aware of what's going on mentally. Man, I would probably be able to maintain a mindset like this more consistently if I meditated regularly lol. I still have so much to improve on. But reading your comment was able to remind me of some of these things, so thank you!

[–] kaxora@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Alternatively, it becomes a dad joke when you start kidding.

[–] kaxora@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I appreciate it, I think it can't really be helped but in both of our cases, as other have mentioned, if people are interested then they will joi

[–] kaxora@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Same thing happens with me with a home instance of lemmy.world.

[–] kaxora@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I see. That makes sense. Thanks for your perspective!

[–] kaxora@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Thanks for your comment. The practice and results may vary from person to person. It's certainly not a miracle cure, but the general finding is that when our bodies are not ejaculating, they are not constantly needing to produce semen which is a very nutrient- and energy-intensive process. As a result, we have more consistent levels of energy and a more stable emotional state.

If you are interested, please check it out!

[–] kaxora@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Sounds good, thanks so much!

[–] kaxora@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

That makes sense lol. Thank you for your insight! I appreciate it.

[–] kaxora@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Thank you. Well, it's not something I generally talk about in person (although I know it's likely seen as strange to most), but on Reddit there was enough of a following that there was not much ostracism, so this is a first for me. I was curious if the Lemmy reaction is more representative of the average person's thoughts on the topic.

Just thinking out loud. Thanks for your reply!

 

I recently created a community for the practice of semen retention. It is an ancient practice and has ties to Taoism. For me and others it is largely for the sake of self improvement and spiritual / material progress.

I posted on a new communities forum and the post almost immediately has garnered several downvotes. I'm genuinely confused as to why. The practice is not hurting anyone, nor is it rude or offensive.

[–] kaxora@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I came here specifically because I want to leave reddit

 

I am both trying to submit a post to a community and edit a post I have already made. When clicking "create," the wheel just spins indefinitely, I have waited for over half an hour and there is no change, reloading does nothing. I am able to load communities and make some other posts though (like this one) so it's not an internet issue.

Update: The post edits could only be made by adding a paragraph or two at a time. There's either a hard or soft character limit. I had to add the rest in comments. As far as posting to the community, I couldn't get that to work at all. I messaged the moderator to ask. Maybe it's a permissions issue..

 

I am anyway trying to reduce my screen time and time on Reddit, and the new changes they're making spurred me to check out Lemmy when I heard about it. I like the simple feel of it and hope that it will create smaller, tighter knitted communities, encourage individual posting (I never posted on Reddit but it feels more acceptable here somehow), and also help to further reduce my screen time.

I'm glad to see there's a Buddhist instance here. I think this may be the first or second post ever on this instance, so for the sake of encouraging conversation I would like to ask those who may see this post:

  1. What sect of Buddhism do you subscribe to? What do you like most about that sect?
  2. What is one way you have incorporated the teachings into your life recently, or one thing you would like to incorporate?

For me:

  1. Tibetan Buddhism (Gelug tradition). I like the fact that it purports that enlightenment can be achieved in just one lifetime; that negative karma can be purified; and that bad things happening is just our negative karma ripening, which means you are paying your karmic debt in those situations. It's very motivating for this lifetime.
  2. I am trying to be more mindful in everyday life because I don't meditate much at all, and I think mindfulness is the next best thing.

I hope this instance / community grows in the future!

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