deelayman

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[–] deelayman@lemmy.ca 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

With respect for your writing, I couldn't understand the argument against meeting people where they're at. The wife approval factor is the tongue in cheek official benchmark for acceptance. It's gentle wisdom that can be applied to all potential users, and I understand it to mean compromise is always needed unless your partner is also a FOSS advocate.

I love free software, but I come to it almost purely from a privacy perspective. And if privacy is the main goal, there is commercial software that doesn't care about vacuuming up consumer data. So for some, including me, it's only a question of risk - tolerance, appetite, and mitigation.

Admittedly I think I don't yet understand the free software movement. My journey began with docker and self hosting some alternatives to big commercial software. There's probably more need to explore why meeting users where they're at is a good rule. Me as an example, I may have overlapping interests with free software but my motivations are different. Therefore the fundamental need for me to use a libre alternative to discord just isn't there. That's not to say I wouldn't be able to appreciate libre more as I interacted with the software and community (regardless of the platform theyre talking on).

[–] deelayman@lemmy.ca 12 points 4 months ago

If you're still trying to conceive, have patience and don't put too much pressure on yourselves. It helped me to go through the mental exercise of thinking that even if we couldnt conceive for many years, I would still be happy and fulfilled by adopting and spending life with my partner that way.

It didn't take us years, but it also didn't take us one try. My doctor saw a low sperm count and that prompted some lifestyle changes. I biked to work every day, and stopped that, I cut out caffeine and alcohol, and I bought some boxers with some support and breathability. Those changes made the biggest difference in sperm count, as I was back up above average in under two months. By all means take the supplements they might offer, but the biggest outcomes will be from your own lifestyle changes.

[–] deelayman@lemmy.ca 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Actually went to a theatre to see it. I like my films to be open to interpretation, not barely intelligible. Didn't have a lot to talk about on the way home from that screening.

[–] deelayman@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I believe in the boundless depths of the self. Beyond that I'm not sure.

Understanding why and how we're even conscious entities, assuming I believe you guys even exist, is the question that still needs to be answered regardless of aliens becoming known to us.

[–] deelayman@lemmy.ca 5 points 5 months ago (2 children)

The previous property owners are also suing the builder... Like why?

The home remains empty except for some squatters. Wowee

[–] deelayman@lemmy.ca 29 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (3 children)

I think another big difference is Lemmy still feels like it is inviting at least a small amount of conversation. Whereas Reddit increasingly feels to me like it collectively prefers to upvote only one correct answer, and stamp down everything else.

I think with federation in general we have more of a chance to preserve what we value in each instance. Whether that is constructive conversation, or cited responses, or memes only/ no memes...

I look forward to being a part of multiple, quite different feeling networks of communities.

[–] deelayman@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Who would stilton be in this family?

[–] deelayman@lemmy.ca 7 points 7 months ago

Beware of all enterprises that require new clothes, and not rather a new wearer of clothes. -Henry David Thoreau


[–] deelayman@lemmy.ca 1 points 8 months ago

CloudFlared is the application you run on your server, and CloudFlare tunnels are what it connects with. You get the same outcome as a ddns but it functions differently under the hood. You also need a domain name for this I think.

DuckDNS might be a good option to start out with.

[–] deelayman@lemmy.ca 2 points 9 months ago

You can try powerline adapters, MOCA adapters if you have coaxial cables running between rooms, flat Ethernet cables exist and might be easiest. I'm assuming you're ruling out WiFi for some reason.

[–] deelayman@lemmy.ca 2 points 9 months ago

Op was subliminated

[–] deelayman@lemmy.ca 30 points 9 months ago (5 children)

Lower concentration of water vapour in farts than in breath. So farts are not a visible in cold weather.

I think it's more likely these will just get condensation from your natural body sweat.

I hate myself for engaging with this thread.

 

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