Sandinband

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[–] Sandinband@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

I'm truly sorry comrade meow-hug

There's nothing I can say to make it hurt less but know you're not alone and that you can talk about it here whenever you need to.

If you can, try taking a break from the news for a little and treat yourself to a food you like or some comfort media

[–] Sandinband@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

From my experience being a poor kid, you have to give back whatever they shared with you and you both get yelled at and or separated

They usually don't tell parents cuz they know how bad it sounds lmfao

[–] Sandinband@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

I've been knitting so much recently my thumb is tender meow-knit

Time to switch weaving until it calms down bean

[–] Sandinband@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

True crime "fans" and content creators are typically very disrespectful to the cases and victims. Like why are you doing asmr or doing your makeup or making jokes while talking about a little girl being murdered?

And the racism and ableism is so disgusting. If the victim is a poc and the perpetrator is white, they're so much more likely to write it off as a suicide or freak accident. Any "weird" body language is a clear sign someone is a "sociopath" or "psychopath" when they're just picking apart someone's every move

Don't get me started on the bootlicking for forensics

[–] Sandinband@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The worst thing about friend breakups is there usually isn't a definitive moment where its like "its over and I need to move on" its a slow but inevitable fading :/

[–] Sandinband@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I'm still sad about friendships that have ended, you heal in your own time meow-hug

[–] Sandinband@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago

Why is aspargus piss the strongest scent on this fucking planet

[–] Sandinband@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago

Getting the most tasks assigned out of my team and my coworkers still don't do the monthly task we're all supposed to do agony-shivering

I got it done but then ended up staying later than I could so some of my other tasks didn't get done and now they're gonna bitch about it while still refusing to help with the monthly task

[–] Sandinband@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago

The switch to continental was so hard but so worth it!

Also recommend to learn to Norwegian purl when you're making the switch, you can do ribbing without having to move the yarn to the front then back of your yarn and for me it prevents rowing out because my knit and purl stitches end up being closer in size

[–] Sandinband@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Thankfully with stretches, propping my elbows on a pillow or something, and switching to continental I can knit a lot longer than before but I still feel like it isn't that much >.>

[–] Sandinband@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

Some of the stretches are from a worst yoga video but I think its more from overuse because I've been knitting a lot and my job can hurt my wrists/hands

[–] Sandinband@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I guess there's a difference between loneliness and solitude

 

I'm experiencing it bad right now. Some of the stuff causing me to feel stressed will pass with time but I'm feeling awful now :/

I can't take more than a day off from work, which might be pushing it anyway, and I have so much work to do in the next week (possibly weeks? Idk yet)

Even weird advice would be appreciated kitty-cri

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