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[–] Naich@kbin.social 89 points 9 months ago (2 children)

99.9% of people have more in common with an illegal immigrant than Elon Musk. Their problems aren't caused by people arriving in small boats, but those arriving in private jets.

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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 59 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

When you get on an airplane, take Your backpack off and carry it by hand. You’ve got luggage on your back sticking out 12, 16 inches and you’re swinging it around like a brain dead fool.

The number of people that cluelessly hit people in aisle seats, shove backpacks in the faces of aisle sitters as the wearer turns to to talk to friends or tries to remember their alphabet and how to count while looking for their seat is ridiculous.

Take your backpack off! You’re hitting people.

[–] gregorum@lemm.ee 13 points 9 months ago

this applies for boarding/riding on public transit (bus, subway).

[–] udon@lemmy.world 53 points 9 months ago (2 children)

With jobs, there is no trade off between pay and atmosphere/nice environment. Bad employers pay bad and treat you badly. Good employers give you decent wage and also treat you well

[–] thanks_shakey_snake@lemmy.ca 27 points 9 months ago

I agree with you in general, but in my industry, there are still lots of companies that buck this trend. Employers that pay competitively but have shitty toxic environments, and scrappy startups where the pay sucks but the vibe is great.

Still, the advice to not think of it as a trade-off intrinsic to companies is solid. You deserve good vibes and good pay from the same job.

[–] Newtra@pawb.social 9 points 9 months ago (1 children)

With jobs, maybe. With careers, especially in STEM, you get lots of exceptions like extremely rewarding but low paying positions in academia, and tech companies that think they can just spend money instead of effort to fix their culture and broken hiring process.

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[–] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 51 points 9 months ago (6 children)

Also drive very defensively on the road. Car ego isn’t worth it behind a 2 ton death machine.

[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 13 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I would like to propose a modification. Drive "actively and predictably."

Be aggressive when needed, like merging. Be defensive when needed, like in traffic. Be predictable when needed, like following right of way when turning.

Do what is needed to be safe and efficient, while also doing what other drivers would expect you to do.

As many accidents come from people stopping on entrance ramps, not taking the left turn to let someone out, or not paying attention as anything else.

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[–] paridoxical@lemmy.world 45 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[–] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 41 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Have a fire extinguisher. Just in case.

[–] gratux@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 9 months ago (1 children)

additionally, have fire alarms and change the batteries when they are low. If you have gas heating, get yourself a good carbon monoxide detector as well!

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[–] DessertStorms@kbin.social 12 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I was going to buy one so I called my local fire station for advice and the advice they gave me was - make sure your fire alarms and smoke detectors are working, and if you have a fire, call 999 and evacuate.

I questioned if it wasn't better to have an extinguisher to try and get it under control, and he explained that most people have generally never used an extinguisher before (or would even know which to use for what fire), and even if they have, not in a real life panic inducing situation, and so are more likely to be wasting valuable time and putting themselves at risk, than actually put out the fire.

I'm sure this won't stop some people, but it was enough for me (he was right, I was calling for advice because I didn't have a clue, and for every person like me who asks, how many don't, and end up in situations like those I presume lead to him giving me that advice?).

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[–] fiat_lux@kbin.social 38 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (10 children)

31 US states and Washington, D.C. have laws allowing forced sterilization of disabled people. It just needs a judge to sign the order.

[–] herrcaptain@lemmy.ca 13 points 9 months ago

I initially didn't recall the "fact or piece of information" in the post title and thought, "well this is a weird tip ..."

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[–] Ekybio@lemmy.world 36 points 9 months ago (4 children)

Buy a plunger before you need one.

[–] fujiwood@lemmy.world 13 points 9 months ago

Make sure you buy the correct type of plunger.

Cup plungers are meant for sinks.

Flange plungers are meant for toilets.

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[–] runner_g@lemmy.blahaj.zone 36 points 9 months ago

Wastewater based epidemiology is really freaking cool, and we have covid to thank for moving it from academia to industry/government testing, where the results are actionable.

We are now tracking covid, mpox, the flu, RSV and many other diseases in wastewater. It's very cost-effective community monitoring and can be applied anywhere from the influent of treatment plants to the manhole cover in front of your gym.

[–] BigSadDad@lemmy.world 31 points 9 months ago (11 children)

Always anchor heavy, tall or easy to climb furniture to a wall. Use either a stud or a drywall anchor. Even if you rent.

The holes are tiny and easy to spackle fill and could save your child, pet or elderly persons life.

Don't be fucking lazy, anchor that dresser.

[–] TIMMAY@lemmy.world 11 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

What if im trying to murder someone via a rube goldberg style contraption and easy-to-tip-over furniture is my coup de grace? edit: golberg -> goldberg

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[–] weeeeum@lemmy.world 29 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (4 children)

Luxury is cheap if you are clever. You can buy a premium 500$ office chair from 10-100$ if you can find one locally used one.

Buying the best value refurbished laptops and computer parts can save so much money. You can buy a refurbished laptop with 512gb SSD storage and 32gb of ram for 250$, the newest MacBook has 128gb SSD storage and 8gb of ram for 1000$. You can literally buy 4x the ram and storage for 1/4 of the price.

I have like 20,000$ worth of furniture but payed like 2,000$ for it. Use Google lens on cheap furniture you see and you'll find some extraordinary value. I once found a 4,500 brass chandelier for 45$ at a habitat for humanity. Make sure to buy it from a store that checks for bed bugs etc.

Knowing how to repair stuff. The value of expensive items are very delicate, a single broken part can make the price plummet. This way you can get an expensive device, or anything, and replace a small or simple part. Did this on a cheap laptop with a broken power button and it works great.

Knowing how to "tune" your tools and stuff. A lot of cheap tools and items can be made much better with some fine tuning. On a saw, re-set and sharpen the teeth, on a knife thin and sharpen the edge, run Linux on old hardware etc. For everything you have, squeeze every last bit of performance out of it.

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[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 28 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Carnivorous plants are not as hard to take care of as most people think. Sundews are literally an invasive species in New Zealand, and Venus flytraps are from South Carolina. The reason they seem hard to take care of is because many companies that sell carnivorous plants provide incorrect care instructions or pot them in the wrong type of soil. Most likely as a planned obsolescence scheme to get people to buy more. Learn the proper care instructions, and they're extremely hardy.

[–] massive_bereavement@kbin.social 8 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Do you have a favorite site for plant soil/care guidance?

I'm not particularly interested in carnivorous plants, but plants in general, and I often see sites with conflicting info.

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[–] GrundlButter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 26 points 9 months ago
[–] Denjin@lemmings.world 21 points 9 months ago (2 children)

The sperm cell of the drysophila fruit fly is 6 times longer than its own body

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[–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 20 points 9 months ago

Spend as much time as you can, with your aging loved ones.

[–] MTK@lemmy.world 17 points 9 months ago

Understad the things you use every day.

Using a phone? understand how computers and operating systems work and how networking works, at least at a basic level.

Brushing your teeth? Learn how to do it correctly. Understand the logic behind it. Do some basic research.

Own a car? learn how to maintain it, understand how it works, understand its limitations.

live in a house? understand how to maintain it, how to repair it, how it works, where your electric box is.

Etc. You don't have to be an expert on everything, but you should have a basic understanding of the things you use every day.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 17 points 9 months ago

Every time you pass through a door that locks, do this:

  • hold the door open, not allowing it to close
  • locate the key that opens that lock and hold it
  • now let the door close
  • let go of the key

The more you do this, the more it becomes a habit: you never let a locked door close unless you’re holding the key that opens it.

The fact that it’s physical touch and not just mental confirmation makes it stronger, and easier to program as a habit since you sort of build it into your body.

It’s just a mental trigger: PASSING THROUGH DOOR -> TOUCH KEY

Then sometimes you’ll be unconsciously reaching for that key to touch it, and you can’t find it, and you’re still holding the door open, and it just saved you from a major hassle of being locked out.

[–] GilgameshCatBeard@lemmy.ca 16 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (7 children)

Don't ever, for any reason, do anything, to anyone, for any reason, ever, no matter what, no matter where, or who or who you are with, or where you are going, or, or where you've been. Ever. For any reason. Whatsoever.

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[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 16 points 9 months ago (5 children)

When traveling or going to a convention in the USA bring a surge protector for extra power outlets.

Put trash bags at the bottom of your trash can for efficient replacement.

The worst job I've ever heard of was back in Tenochtitlan where someone would go around in a canoe collecting human dung.

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[–] BilboBargains@lemmy.world 15 points 9 months ago

A bicycle doubles your speed for the same effort as walking.

[–] CaptainPedantic@lemmy.world 14 points 9 months ago

When cleaning your glasses, wipe from the temples towards the nose. That way you're not spreading any nose grease you missed across your lenses.

[–] Lath@kbin.social 14 points 9 months ago (4 children)

It's horny season again for cats. Protect your pussies, people!

[–] Nacktmull@lemmy.world 12 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Or even better, have you cat neutered before she get´s into heat. Provided your cat is not suffering from liver problems and can tolerate anaesthesia of course. Being in heat regularly without breeding is not only unnecessary stress for your cat and yourself but also promotes cancer of her reproductive organs.

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[–] z00s@lemmy.world 14 points 9 months ago

I just wrote a post about getting your life stuff in order. Its really important

https://lemmy.world/post/11661595

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 14 points 9 months ago (1 children)

If you have a recurring problem with your computer that has no obvious cause, test your memory.

[–] RyeMan@lemmy.world 9 points 9 months ago (1 children)

That includes NVMe.... Just spent two weeks troubleshooting a constant random reboot on my newly built pc.... It ended up being the m.2 port on the motherboard that was faulty, not even the drive itself. I've been building computers personally and professionally for over 20 years and that was a first for me. Everyone I talked to and every support forum insisted RAM or power supply were the problem but nope! Not this time!

But the lesson here is, if you have a recurring problem that has no obvious cause... Test EVERYTHING. Start with the common stuff that fails and work your way down: Power Supply -> RAM -> CPU -> GPU -> HDDs -> SSDs -> USBs

Tips for RAM: It's usually best to first boot into a ram testing tool like memtest86 and just let that do its thing. That alone is usually all you need to know if you have a memory issue. Sometimes though, results may not make sense, I've seen situations where a new stick of RAM fails at almost every block and it turned out to be the slots on the motherboard that were faulty. In that case if results seem a little fishy you can remove all but one stick of RAM in the first slot, run another test, then move that stick of RAM down to the next slot. Repeat until all slots have been tested, you can also be extra thorough if needed and repeat the same test with the other sticks of RAM. That usually helps rule out if it's a motherboard issue or an issue on the stick of RAM.

CPU/GPU: usually any old stress test will make any hardware issues apparent with these two.

SSDs: these can be a little tricky to test especially if you are booting from them but in my case I found that completely removing the NVMe drive solved all my problems (well a mobo rma was the real fix). I couldn't even boot into a live Linux USB without crashing and rebooting when my NVMe was plugged in. One not so obvious clue that the SSD was acting up was that event logs related to the crash were never written to the drive... Because I/O was outright failing.

USBs: yes, USBs are on that list. One of my first significant computer issues that I had ever encountered occurred from a faulty USB hub that stopped my PC from even booting up. I took it to two different repair shops they all told me nothing was wrong with my computer, but every time I brought it back home and plugged everything back in... I couldn't boot. It was a lucky chance that I figured out it was the USB hub, that was not a fun one.

Now I didn't even add motherboards to the list because quite frankly I'm not sure how they rank but they are the absolute worst piece of hardware to troubleshoot but luckily it's usually pretty rare that they fail. There are so many connections and settings built into motherboards that it quickly gets overwhelming trying to troubleshoot anything related to it. From my experience, if you have individually tested every bit of hardware and everything passes its test, most often it's the motherboard that's failing, especially if you have already ruled out software/firmware issues for sure. Motherboard issues aren't always obvious and can often fail in very bizarre ways.

And as a final bit of advice I'd like to throw out there from my years of experience in PC building.... NEVER CHEAP OUT ON A POWER SUPPLY. It affects every single component in your PC and when they fail it can get ugly. I bought a super cheap off-brand power supply one time and pushed that thing to the absolute limits and when it failed it took down more than half of my PC with it, fried my motherboard, CPU, and RAM. Additionally, the risk of fire is not zero when these things fail. Always use ONLY the cables provided for that power supply and nothing else. Those cables are rated specifically for the wattage that can be supplied by that power supply. Also, it's good to get a power supply that's roughly 100+ watts more than what your PC needs. This helps in maximizing the efficiency of the power supply as well as increasing longevity due to less thermal wear.

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[–] femboy_bird@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 9 months ago (14 children)

Gender and sex are not the same thing. Gender is an emotion experience, sex is a biological categorization based on an individual's role in reproduction. Gender and sex needn't match. Gender can change (mine often does), sex cannot. Just like sex people do not have control over their gender, if someone's gender changes or doesn't match their sex it is not because of a decision they made, it is merely an emotion. So be nice to trans people, they're just people trying to not be uncomfortable living in their own skin.

[–] beckerist@lemmy.world 15 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It's nice to be nice

  • Mister Rogers

words I've always lived by

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[–] Nacktmull@lemmy.world 8 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (3 children)

Gender can change (...), sex cannot.

That statement got me a lifetime ban on reddit, justification: transphobia

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[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 11 points 9 months ago (2 children)

The difference between skim and whole milk is 3% fat.

[–] derf82@lemmy.world 9 points 9 months ago

And a ton of flavor

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