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One of my biggest causes of dysphoria right now is facial hair. I hate shaving, and unfortunately HRT doesn't help reduce existing hair.

My partner helped me find a great trans-friendly, local electrologist.

I set up a consultation and agreed to an initial 15 minute session after being satisfied with the consultation. The technician is very experienced, board certified, and professional.

Unfortunately I wasn't expecting to have my first session, so I hadn't taken pain killers or used any topical numbing agents. So I got the full experience of the pain. Not recommended.

I have a high pain tolerance, but it really does hurt. It made my whole body twitch at times. Thankfully it is only a quick sharp sting, then you feel nothing. At least for a second or two.

The process is that a tiny sterile probe is inserted down the hair shaft to the base of the follicle, and applies an electrical shock to cauterize the blood vessel feeding it, then the hair is removed. Because the hairs are always in different growth stages that take about 4-6 weeks to complete, the treatment is repeated throughout the year to catch them all.

My technician is very thorough about aftercare. I was recommended a soothing lavender and tea tree oil balm, and aloe vera gel. It feels wonderful. Have to remember to not spend too much time in the sun, to wear sunscreen, and stay hydrated.

All in all it wasn't too bad and totally worth never having beard shadow or shaving again. Going back next week for a 30 minute session, then 45 minutes after that. She estimates it won't take too long, due to how naturally sparse my hair is.

Another box getting checked off my transition list <3

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[โ€“] onevia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I wonder if they could also do like full body ๐Ÿฅฒ might take 100+ sessions but I really hate the body hair dysphoria, lol

Congrats on working on getting that beard shadow gone! Probably gonna be my first area as well โค๏ธ

They totally can but like you said it will take a long time and a lot of money

[โ€“] ThatFembyWho@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Absolutely they can!

I think you can expect an investment on the order of 10k for full body electrolysis.

[โ€“] onevia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh boy ๐Ÿฅฒ I think I'll start off small, lol. Thanks for the insight!

[โ€“] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Depending on your skin tone and the color of your body hair, laser can be very effective for large areas for (relatively) cheaper.

Pale skin and dark hair have the best results with laser. The closer your hair color to skin color, the less effective it is, although newer lasers are getting better at doing darker skin tones in general.

[โ€“] onevia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

Hey, pale-skin-and-dark-hair is my middle name! Lol

Looking into laser as well. Thank you ๐Ÿ˜Š

[โ€“] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago

Yay, good for you!! Do you know if they treat areas like the upper back and shoulders as well? ๐Ÿ™ˆ