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The transphobia stops now (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

This community is housed on an instance run by two trans women, focused on the needs of the queer and gender diverse community.

We allowed 196 here because we were promised the community is queer and trans inclusive.

If you're here it's because you're aggressively supportive of trans folk. Not middle of the ground, not "just asking questions".

If your response to that is, "yes, but..." then this isn't the instance for you, and by extension, this isn't the community for you.

tl;dr - Unambiguous support and inclusion, or fuck off somewhere else.

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Edit - I changed the phrase "aggressive support to "unambiguous support", as there was some confusion over the intent behind my previous phrasing.

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[โ€“] onichama@feddit.de 25 points 1 year ago

TRANS RIGHTS FUCK YEAH ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ

[โ€“] sexy_peach@feddit.de 25 points 1 year ago

Also people remember to report assholes! Don't interact, report them. Mods will handle it.

[โ€“] StarLuigi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 1 year ago

thank you so much for making this clear again ada, it was getting bad :(

[โ€“] Darthjaffacake@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I'll be honest I think alienating people feeling in the middle is a bad idea, making an echo chainber is ehat those other websites are for, and people on the middle ground are the ones whose beliefs matter the most as they they are the only ones that will change things.

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[โ€“] tsz@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah I have no problem with you being trans, I do have a problem with this goofiness. Good luck, friends.

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[โ€“] CYCLR@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago (16 children)

Personally, I don't think about other people's sexuality all that much, so I guess that makes me a non-aggressive supporter.

It's weird to impose this type of stuff, but I respect that this is your little space on the internet, so I'm leaving, as you asked. Thank you for the smiles and laughs.

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[โ€“] KrimsonBun@lemmy.ml 23 points 1 year ago

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ

[โ€“] girltwink@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lemmy is in a weird state. I appreciate not seeing casual homophobia/transphobia in mainstream places like 196, but they're also not exactly inclusive of actual out-and-grown-up queer people, and there aren't enough people here yet for actual safe places to exist. I posted a comment self-referentially calling myself (a trans woman ) a "f-----" or something, and it got downvoted and deleted. This was a problem on reddit, where transphobes would report trans people for using self-referential slurs, and tone deaf reddit admins would ban their accounts. Now it seems like we're going to do it again here.

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[โ€“] tonnert@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago

Go go go. Iโ€™m so sick and tired of the hatred, the ignorance and frankly speaking, the stupidness.

Iโ€™m from a culture that is not very forgiving and tolerant, even though on the tin it says we are.

And it took me years to see and understand it. Now that Iโ€™ve conquered that ignorance, hell no we are not going to regress!!

[โ€“] yeather@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I get the sentiment but damn are the trans memes painfully unfunny. Y'all gotta get better at making memes or this instance is gonna remain mid.

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[โ€“] Barbarian@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 year ago

Not from this instance and not a contributor to this community, but just wanna say great job.

Protecting the ideals of your instance is definitely a worthy goal, and I definitely include trans people in the category of people who get shit on undeservedly from on high and deserve way better.

FUCK YES! I'm so glad to see this, the comments on some of those posts recently just gave such an ick feeling. Fuck transphobes. All hail glorious blahaj!

[โ€“] Anti_Weeb_Penguin@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago (21 children)
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[โ€“] HerbalGamer@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago

Somewhat relevantly, I've long since wondered what even is the use of a patriarchy if men still can't wear skirts and nail polish.

[โ€“] PelicanPersuader@beehaw.org 19 points 1 year ago

AGGRESSIVE SUPPORT FROM AN ENBY QUEER WEIRDO! I SUPPORT YOU FAM.

[โ€“] UhBell@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] ConfirmingMoose@reddthat.com 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I still have no idea how these communities are set up structurally. That said I'm quite pleased to see this as the community baseline. Stumbling into inclusivity is the best kind of stumbling.

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