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Porn Historically Decides Tech Adoption... Fediverse? (kbin.social)

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Historically, porn has organically decided which platform or formats become dominant. It's incredibly anti-censorship, but walks many fine lines.

As Reddit now and tomorrow reveals more weaknesses, where will the OnlyFans creators, porn posters, and all those grassroots porn communities go? The creators need to make money by showing to a large and interested user base. The users need lots of content to choose from and be fed constantly, with very few hindrances between them and their...goals. Many of the niches actually have respectful and healthy communities, too. Those people deserve an easy to use platform, just as much as people that want to look at cats, some of those groups, arguably more.

The thought of how to pose this to the Fediverse, now, has been on my mind for weeks:

Can the fediverse rise to the task? Does it even want to? Should it?

Personally, I think it should absolutely try, but I'm not sure it can do so without several deep strides in tech and development. I'm aware this is a hot af take, but it's undeniable that the internet IS for porn, and denying that would be a huge opportunity loss for inevitably winning this popularity context.

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[–] Candelestine@lemmy.world 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, the Fediverse is pretty much designed to be able to handle stuff like this. They just get their own Instances, and anyone who does not wish to see that content can defederate with them.

You can't keep anyone, at all, not porn, not Zuckerberg, not Nazis, nobody, off the Fediverse. It's actually impossible. All you can do is defederate the things you do not wish to associate with.

This is a non-issue, and hand-wringing about it is largely pointless. If you want to talk about the rightness of defederating different platforms, that's a different story. But that's also up to the communities of each individual Instance.

[–] ComMcNeil@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You can't keep anyone, at all, not porn, not Zuckerberg, not Nazis, nobody, off the Fediverse. It's actually impossible. All you can do is defederate the things you do not wish to associate with.

Isn't that possibly creating echo chambers again?

[–] k1k@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

You can research which instance you want to build your account on; if you are worried about an echo chamber then I would look for an instance that is clear about what they defederate with, or even run your own. I'm fine with not seeing extremist views and don't mind defederating with Nazi content

[–] MrComradeTaco@lemmy.fmhy.ml 29 points 1 year ago (1 children)

lemmynsfw.com

[–] DarkThoughts@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Currently defederated from kbin.

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[–] Teon@kbin.social 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just an FYI, OnlyFans (or any other business) could easily start a kbin, mastodon, pixelfed instance and call it kbin.OnlyFans.net or OnlyFans.social, or what ever they choose.

[–] platysalty@kbin.social 9 points 1 year ago

As they should. It'll help creators, plus help push the fediverse hardcore (pun fucking intended).

Win-win.

[–] rcmaehl@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

You say that like lemmynsfw.com isn't one of the most popular instances.

[–] RedditExodus@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've been trying to block all the Hentai, cartoon, and AI porn communities on LemmyNSFW but other than that it's pretty great! If you turn on the auto-expand images setting it makes for easy left-hand browsing.

[–] OtakuAltair@vlemmy.net 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Blocking entire instances from the user's end is a very common request and should be a thing at some point, specially in the 3rd party apps.

[–] etrotta@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That is already possible on kbin (browse to kbin.social/d/instance then block there, e.g. https://kbin.social/d/vlemmy.net ), I don't think that it is supported on Lemmy though.
(Mentioning since this discussion is on kbin, though it seems like you are using lemmy. rip)

[–] Mnmalst@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Does that work for you tho? I have two domains blocked but still see them (at least one of them I am sure of) in my "all" feed.

[–] wahming@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Based on feedback so far, it only seems to work for random users. Definitely doesn't work for me on kbin

[–] RedditExodus@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

I don't want to block the entire instance. I still want all the real porn, just not the cartoon/AI stuff.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Im copying/pasting something I said on another thread but it applies here. Its what I would like to ultimately have in the federation:

I am a free speech absolutist and I want pretty much anything to go but I want the tools for users to be able to block it in any manner they want from blocking users to blocking magazines to blocking domains and I want it to include comments and actually go both ways (joke not intended but right after I wrote that I liked it). When I block something I don't want that person, place, or thing to see any of my comments or posts. If I blocked them its a good chance its folks that might try doxing or some shit. I would like blockers to know who or what they blocked so they can undo if they choose but I don't want blockees to know. I would like profiles to be only seeable by logged in users and I would like usernames and such masked for folks not logged in. I realize this is a lot and its not here now and that some folks may hate the idea of what I write here but that is how I would like to see something like this go. As much power as possible brought to individual consumers to prune their feeds and as much freedom as possible for creators.

[–] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't see how you could effectively block people seeing you if the person wanted to, because even if a system is made so you can only be seen by logged in users, that user could make an alt. Heck, they could have an alt that they don't use for commenting, so one wouldn't even know to block it.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

well I wouldn't expect it to in that circumstance. I just want the most out of what it could do. Stalkers going to that extreme will always get the way around to some degree. I just don't want it easy for them to notice and honestly I would prefer in the long run they not exactly advertise that stuff but just have it be the way it is and someone would have to look into it to know blocking works both ways. It will certainly cut down on the casual jerk. Jerk being a realtive term to the individual. To me a system like that would approach more what organically happens in life. You hang with those you like and avoid those you don't.

[–] bstix@feddit.dk 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think the idea of shadow-banning yourself on other people's accounts is something that only makes sense in extreme cases.

It could easily make a mess in comment threads if it is used too much.

It's already personal when it's needed, so I doubt it would stop trolls, stalkers or harassment very much.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

See thats the thing. I don't block individuals willy nilly. I curate heaviest from the top down. Also I think what your talking about only happens at the point of the block. In the long run it just curates the content. The real problem, like pretty much all the problems, is folks doing wierd stuff like making multiple accounts and playing around with the system. But that kinda thing has issues all the time. Individuals can act like their own bots with multiple accounts upvoting/boosting and downvoting and having discusions among themselvs. Our really only defense against it is the individuals ability to currate to the max. At least in my opinion. I wonder how much this comes down to viewpoint. I am thinking of this very much selfishly from my own experience and what I want to get out of this. Thinking just now are you thinking more in terms of the community at large? My hope with the federation is instance allow for both theoretically. So I could ultimately live in my shadow banning heaven that federates with every thing while some folks will have less extreme things but the instance will defederate content to protevt them a bit and whatever. Maybe some better form of up and downvoting will happen too.

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[–] tal@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Disagree on blocking them from responding. I think that this change to how the Reddit blocking feature worked was one of the largest errors Reddit made in recent years. Led to people in conversations disagreeing, one user making a statement and then blocking the other so that it looked like the blocking user would get the last word, which prevented the other from responding.

It's also useless to stop someone from doxing you, because they can just create another account and use that. The only way that it would be efficacious in that regard would be if the whole system worked via whitelisting users rather than blacklisting them.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

im not saying blocking from responding im saying I disapear to them and they to me. they can still respond and other folks I did not block would see it and possibly my last one. I would be the one unable to respond as I would not get notified of their response and no longer see it. I guess I would not expect any previous conversations that are in their notifications to necessarily disapear as thats already in their profile. I responded to someone on the doxing thing. I just want to get rid of low hanging fruit. Ultimately I just don't want to be in the same virtual universe as them. I know it does not sound like it from this convo but I don't block user often but when I do I really just don't want anything to do with that person even incidentally.

[–] explodingkitchen@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

im not saying blocking from responding im saying I disapear to them and they to me.

That's a hard no. Blocking is for curating your experience, not someone else's.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I respect that but for me I want to get away from these people in all ways. I go to a bar and because of a few assholes I stop going even though there are some folks I like. There is no way around it. Technology holds the promise to be able to stay at the bar. Making others invisible to me but not becoming invisible to them is in some ways sorta scary. Especially when you consider im not looking to make folks invisible only some. A good example is I like discourse but if someone response is something like "well then stop being a jerk you pussy", well that is not the discourse I want so I block them. I don't see thier brilliant responses to my discourses now but as you say lurkers do or whatever. That is polluting my discourse and I did not want to talk with this person anymore. I really don't know how to convey this honestly but anyway I don't think mine is the end all be all its just what I would want and I totally get others not wanting it. Ultimately I will take half a loaf like most things in the world but I would leave for an instance that has what I want in an instant.

[–] explodingkitchen@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't see thier brilliant responses to my discourses now but as you say lurkers do or whatever. That is polluting my discourse and I did not want to talk with this person anymore.

Nope. The discourse ended when you abandoned it. Whether the other person is still shitposting is something you have no control over. I guarantee that if they were enough of an asshole for you to want to block them, any lurker worth their salt's already aware of their assholishness. And really, it's kind of silly to concern yourself with the opinions of people who might or might not even be there.

Stop thinking of these exchanges as debates you need to win, and think of them instead as conversations that either are or aren't worth your time. When you block, you're making a decision the conversation's not worth any more of your time, so stop giving it your attention--and that includes wondering what else has been said and what others think of it.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

yeah I generally am not looking to win. I consider some of the best discourse to be when someone changes my mind. I don't block people though to end a converstation. I just stop replying. blocking was becuase the person just replies with insults and just generally behaves badly. So its not about a particular discourse but about just wanting to be completely seperated from anyone like that.

[–] wahming@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

im saying I disapear to them

This approach is incredibly open to abuse. Reddit implemented this to a lesser degree and abuse already started happening. By blocking everybody who disagrees with you, you can start threads that are only visible to lurkers and your supporters, creating a warped perception of public opinion and false consensus.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

this sounds a bit like arguments I have had on this about it will create echo chambers. its up to lurkers to curate their own feeds and echo chambers will always be there. I want the ability to cut bs out of my stuff and others to do the same and I want freedom for creators to make what they want. Im sorry if it means bad stuff will be out there but that ship has sailed anyway. The more we get to something like this the more I think bad ideas will fall to obscurity. I really don't see how blocking shit out is open to more abuse than shoveling the shit out. Honestly one thing I would hope with something like this is that I would need to filter less because hopefully some folks blocking me would increase the quality of my feed.

[–] wahming@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I want the ability to cut bs out of my stuff

What are you talking about? Nobody's disputing that. You seem to have lost the thread of the conversation, which is about preventing people you've blocked from seeing your posts. At that point you're not cutting BS out of your stuff, but other people's.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

fair enough. I guess what I mean is I want the toxic individuals cut completely out of my (virtual) life. I don't want to post for them to troll. I don't want them part of a conversation im replying in. I don't even necessarily see this as ever happening as it is a big ask. Im just saying what would to me be the ideal. I don't want to listen to these folks or talk to them. I essentially want the amish shunning system but on an individually controlled basis.

[–] wahming@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Correctly implemented, a block system would allow them to see your comments but not reply. I think that's essentially the major part of what you're looking for?

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

not really. I really don't want any interaction anymore generally so I would like them to not even see my comments. I realize its a big ask and quite likely something that will never happen but that would be the ideal for me. Not just comments but posts. They can reply to someone elses post on the same topic. I for all practical purposes would like to cease to exist for the person and vice versa. Don't see thier posts or comments or anything.

[–] wahming@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah as I explained earlier, that won't happen because it's been proven to be a golden opportunity for abuse.

[–] ferallettuce@kbin.social 12 points 1 year ago

I’m doing my part by hosting a bondage magazine (/m/bondage) on kbin. I spent 11 years getting all this free porn from /r/bondage, and I think that if we all take an active role in posting our favorite types of nsfw content and help foster its growth through interacting with other posters, this’ll all go well.

At the end of the day, we just need to work towards having new content daily for people to look at.

[–] OtakuAltair@vlemmy.net 9 points 1 year ago

Plug: !animemidriff@lemmynsfw.com

[–] ssfckdt@mastodon.cloud 6 points 1 year ago

For cars it's racing, for planes it's military, for CPUs/GPUs it's gaming, and for communication and graphics/video, it's porn.

This goes back pretty far, too, as the original test image for image compression techniques was a crop of a Playboy model. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lenna

[–] NotTheOnlyGamer@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There's already porn in the fediverse. I don't see a problem with it existing, but it's always bothered me when porn and social media get mixed. That's not necessarily because of prudishness or shame, but rather the fact that social media often employs dark patterns of addiction, and porn addiction can become very real, very quickly. I think we need to be careful about it, and I think there should be an onus on platforms as well as producers to help protect the vulnerable against addiction and the downward spiral.

[–] SCmSTR@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Ehh... There's definitely change that occurs (look at porn free people vs porn heavy people), and a risk of total destruction. But I feel like a lot of this stance IS prudish slippery-slope rhetoric and fear mongering.

Regardless, we could debate on the effects and philosophy of porn for a long time, there's value and reality supporting all sides on this one, but I do agree we need to be careful about it and have it serve everybody, regardless of belief. This would require a lot of development to have (let's say, pro porners and anti porners, just for sake of argument) pro and anti people both have minimal pain points whilst also growing a decentralized future with great accessibility and great data redundancy and great safety.

[–] Lells@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

If someone makes a federated porn app, they could call it "Feddish" ... just give me a mention in the credits.

[–] ghariksforge@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

beautiful!

[–] jugalator@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I want to make an app that defaults you to lemmynsfw just because of this comment now. Like pick a name and password and boom you have a porn feed now. No knowledge of instances or Lemmy needed. Would be pretty cool.

[–] AreAyeTee@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I mean you could just create a second "porn" login on lemmynsfw and switch between profiles on a app like connect or jerboa... I'm pretty sure I know a guy who did just that 😉

[–] AreAyeTee@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Modern problems... Require Modern Solutions 👍🏿

[–] rootadmin@mastodon.online 2 points 1 year ago

@SCmSTR lookup switter.at, it was once a mastodon instance for sex workers but shut down even before twitter migration...

[–] exoplanetary@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I browsed All a couple weeks ago and quickly stumbled upon a naked woman so I think we’re in business here lol

[–] nostalgicgamerz@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Now we need GIF support

[–] szczur@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They could host a Lemmy/Kbin accounts, although I feel like Twitter will be their next choice, since it's algorithm-ridden and has a huge amount of people in it.

[–] BrikoX@vlemmy.net 1 points 1 year ago

Twitter is already struggling with For You being hardcore porn every 10th post. Not everyone wants that so they are bleeding that "huge amount of people".

[–] Nollij@lemmy.fmhy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

It's true that porn is a big part of the internet at large. You can point to countless examples where a product (even social media) lived and died by porn.

But there are also countless examples where porn was never a factor. Most of the major social platforms today have always had an anti-porn approach. It's debatable whether that helped or hindered their growth, but it's always been a thing.

Now, I can't think of any where porn was a big part of their platform that got removed, and they came out ok. Maybe that's (part of) why Reddit has been downplaying porn for a while.

Right now, there is plenty of porn in the fediverse. But there will be the same challenges as any user-submitted porn site. There's currently a big discussion about categories that are unwanted, generally offensive, and illegal in certain jurisdictions. The fediverse makes all of that more complicated. There's also a big concern about the content being uploaded directly, increasing the load on every instance that federates.

There will definitely be porn here, but I don't think it's going to work the same as it did on Reddit.

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