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Coworker. I told him to fuck off with his conspiracy bullshit. But back when I patronized him, one thing he said was that he didn't consider belief a binary as in that you either believe something or don't. He viewed all beliefs as a continuum. You can believe one thing 10% and another thing 90%, but he wouldn't let me pin him down as to whether he "believed" any particular thing or not.

All while trying to convince me "tall white aliens" run the U.S. government and Sandy Hook was faked by a bunch of actors and the U.S. military had invisibility technology and planes that aren't dumping weather-controlling chemicals don't leave trails in the sky. Pretty standard QAnon-level bullshit. But if I asked him if he believed any of those things, he wouldn't answer. Honestly, it makes sense as a dishonest rhetorical tactic.

Dude also literally drinks borax in his juice cleanse drink.

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[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I have one some say is interesting.

There's this author I've enjoyed, in a way where you could call her an idol of mine. She wrote a few books I liked and I knew she went by a certain name and so I looked her up in a user directory based on this just as a way to entertain myself. Sent a request to be friends. The response was "request sent" and I was like "hehehehe, there's a really small chance that's her".

A week later I got a response and almost shat myself. But we talked and talked and soon she invited me to a few of her social circles. I accepted. And... one of them is a flat earther club.

I definitely don't mind and don't judge. We're still strong friends, we talk every day, and I'm a VIP in their social circle (I feel honored), but she's big on that stuff and there's a big discussion every now and then on the shape of the Earth, and it's an... interesting experience. So I just sit on the sidelines as the one woman who silently disagrees with the Earth being flat. ~~It's concave.~~

[–] Caboose12000@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

~~it's concave~~

lmao this really got me.

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Too darn many. Some of the family close to me has ignored their neurological decline for years. when I was a kid they used to drag me along to all sorts of crowds. It was quite the cluster####.

One that I debunked myself: one lady told me that I'd be drinking by the time I was 19. I proved her wrong, and I now realise what she did. I messaged her years later as we agreed to I would, but she did not remember me.

[–] Deez@lemm.ee 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

I now realise what she did.

What did she do?

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 7 points 3 days ago

She got me to stay away from alcohol for a long long time. I still think I'd have regardless, but I appreciate the effort

[–] nightwatch_admin@feddit.nl 3 points 3 days ago

Reverse Psychology

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I have a coworker that believes every single conspiracy theory out there. Thankfully he doesn't vote. I've only talked to the guy a couple times tho, so I can't remember any of the specifics.

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[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 3 points 3 days ago

There's new conspiracy theories popping up;

The issue with conspiracy theories nowadays though, is stigma. There are plenty of people who tell me that there's super evil conspiracies. But calling those conspiracies makes people upset.

And not because their ideas are always unreasonable. It's just the stigma as far as I can tell

[–] Elaine@lemm.ee 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Just the other day my friend told me that if I put TikTok on my phone the Chinese government will connect my phone to all my other devices and accounts so they can get my juicy data.

[–] psyklax@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

They could skip all that and just pay for it from the THOUSANDS of companies trying to compile a "marketing" dossier on every human alive.

Edit: So that have your data, what do they think the next step is, blackmail? Our government will be throwing you in camps for gay thought crimes soon. What can china do from way over there?

[–] Zoldyck@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

Yeah we all know they already have all of our juicy data

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