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I have a close friend that I've known 20 years who became obsessed with right-wing politics. even though I'm liberal, I don't make it my entire personality and life. But anyway... I was talking to him this morning casually like friends do.

Me: "Hey man. Do you have off today for MLK day?" Friend: "No, I have to work today." Me: "Damn, sorry to hear. I have off today since it's a company holiday." Friend: "Yeah, I work for a living. Guess that's the difference me and people who live in an ivory tower." Me: "Uhh I work for a living too. Idk why you're acting like I don't?" Friend: "I didn't mean you specifically. But you’re off and I’m not so it shows that you get to relax at least. You should be able to handle the truth lol. There's no shame in admitting that I'm a harder worker than everyone else. you shouldn't be so sensitive"

Honestly, he's not unique, either. I've met so many people who are conservative, obsessed with right-wing stuff, and they're all like this. They act like they're special and the whole world is lazy, "no one wants to work anymore" attitude.

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[–] SatanClaus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 42 points 3 days ago (1 children)

What a loser. I hate people like this. We are all working hard you fucking dunce. Get your head out of your ass.

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[–] phughes@lemmy.ca 56 points 3 days ago (2 children)

My brother, a right winger, brought his kids up to visit me last summer.

It was at the end of the week that he told me that I hardly work at all. I'm like: Yeah, I have fucking guests in my house. I was still at my desk when I wasn't trying to keep 2 teenaged girls entertained.

He moved his family 1000 miles away and 20 years later is lamenting that they have no relationship with the people he moved away from. (I'm sure it's just a coincidence that this lines up with the rise of "Family" talk from right wingers.) This same guy calls other people "Sheeple".

[–] st3ph3n@midwest.social 41 points 3 days ago

Sounds like him living 1,000 miles away is a good outcome.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 36 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Why is an adutl man concerned about how much another person works...

Also working hard is not a virtue, it is an indicator of poor management

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[–] kSPvhmTOlwvMd7Y7E@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago

Goodbye "friend"

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 35 points 3 days ago (3 children)

moist toxic

God damn slightly damp conservatives.

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[–] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 39 points 3 days ago

Yeah, conservatives like to randomly plug phrases of propaganda like unfunny inside jokes. Depending on my relationship with them I do one of the following.

  1. Ignore if I'm not that close. Maybe roll my eyes a bit.
  2. Push back on it if we're in the context of world events/news/politics.
  3. If we're close enough, re-direct the culture war bullshit interjections with interjections of class war. If your friend sees it fit to just randomly call society lazy, you can also randomly call the upper capitalist class lazy government-teat sucking hoarders.
[–] octopus_ink@lemmy.ml 22 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There is no better measure of your worth to a conservative than how many hours you are willing to work in support of the 1% becoming even richer.

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[–] SoftTeeth@lemmy.world 22 points 2 days ago

Religious conservatives are trained from childhood to unwaveringly believe things that can't be proven, and teaches that malice is the only acceptable way to get dopamine.

[–] Saleh@feddit.org 10 points 2 days ago

I dont think it is specific to conservatives. People who define their identity through their political views tend to be like this, regardless of their political views.

I have experienced similiar behaviour with people who identified as leftists, anarchists, feminists as much as with people who identify as conservatives, liberals...

The annoying thing is, that you cannot respectfully disagree with them on anything anymore, because they perceive it as an attack on themselves directly.

[–] stinerman@midwest.social 29 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Being a harder worker isn't something to be proud of, friend.

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[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 12 points 2 days ago

Correct

It's a shame because if Conservatives would just look at who they're supporting for five seconds, instead of going "He's not a filthy librul." they'd realize they stole the Ivory Tower from themselves.

[–] MothmanDelorian@lemmy.world 23 points 3 days ago

The assertion that your friend is a harder worker might not ge true. I have had to work many holidays in retail because my job said I had to not because Im a harder worker.

[–] FreakinSteve@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Disown them immediately.

I am serious.

Nothing good will come of this. He us announcing his resentment of you and it WILL get worse.

[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 25 points 3 days ago

"if your position is that you CHOSE a job that makes you work on MLK Day, that makes you a dumber worker".

[–] therealjcdenton@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 days ago

I don't want to work lol

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] MyDogLovesMe@lemmy.world 17 points 3 days ago (2 children)

It’s just easier to hate.

People choose easy over ‘better’ as a rule.

…and, it’s just easier to hate and be angry than to work through the prejudices, and inner demons you may carry with you.

Inner work is much, MUCH harder to do. I have done some serious physical labour in my life, so I know what I’m comparing here (including the day in/day out of that life).

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[–] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 days ago

People who deliberately ignore struggles that others outside their immediate community experience, especially ones that they cause themselves, don't deserve to be listened to

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