traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns
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Posts about dysphoria/trauma/transphobia should be NSFW tagged for community health purposes.
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weight
the tweet this person is quoting and all the replies going βIβm 5β7+ and a similar weightβ is going to give me an ED I swear to God.
Likeβ¦okay, your BMI 17-18 and look like that? Guess Iβll go down to 90 pounds then.
How do I tell my hairstylist that I want this haircut without showing them this image of a dog girl?
That hair cut more or less looks like what is literally called a wolf cut. Or you can just get bangs. Or just show her the picture, whatever
Wrong. The correct answer should only be "show her the dog girl pic"
I don't think my heart could handle doing that
unrelated, but this picture is so cute
I'm feeling particularly content today and wish I knew how to recreate this feeling more consistently. I feel cheerful in a way where I don't feel like I'm faking it
Write a note to yourself in the future. Explain to her that you genuinely feel content and authentic. Let her know that it's possible for her to feel this way, regardless of however she's feeling when she reads it.
Read it when you're feeling doubtful.
I think things will be going smoothly for a while
sexism
I have a difficult time calling myself and being called a woman but not for gender reasons I don't think. I like girl and lady. I think it's because growing up, the context I would hear the word "woman" being used the most is my dad referring to my mom, and tying her fulfilment of her "biblical duties" to her womanhood. I think it's hard for me to separate the word from that connotation, even though I know it's bullshit. Like every time someone calls me a woman I feel my dad calling me one and I hate it.
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Sometimes we just have personal reasons why certain gendered terms donβt work for us. Hate your dad, though.
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Yeah I do too. He sucks in so many ways. If my brother wasn't living with him I would have cut him off entirely by now.
I'm kind of on the lookout for other terms I can go by (maybe even some nongendered ones π). I have the suspicion that I haven't found my favorite yet.
yapping about trauma
the more I think about trauma, the more unfair I think it is to make traumatized adults participate in capitalist society when they're basically kids.
social services should circle the wagons and let people heal and learn before they have to grow up. it should be given the same urgency as a house fire.
like literally it's not right. you shouldn't be able to grow up wrong. people who need to learn to love themselves should be given that care. not access, not the option, point blank, provided with mental health resources and professionals.
when someone injures their leg, it's not, "oh oh I hope you can get the help you need" it's "holy shit he can't fucking walk we gotta help". why is mental health different LMAO
Obviously I'm being ridiculous and describing something that will never happen. Wanting to be dead is a feature, not a bug.
the old mega is dying. the new mega struggles to be pinned.
now is the time of posters.
I tried playing marvel rivals with some friends and its kinda fun, but also reminded me why I stopped playing those types of games: so many people who can't take a loss without getting insanely mad The absurdity of it is kinda funny when it happens, but it creates such a negative environment where i don't want to spend that much time tbh
it's gonna be a "Sing Will Wood until my nose bleeds" sorta night ain't it
called the college LGBTQ center
left a voicemail
if this truly is a solo journey then i have to accept that i have nobody. it's just me. it might always be just me.
crappy day folx, I decided to switch from Windows to Fedora, and after installing it, I noticed my PC only recognizes 8 out of the 16GB of RAM that should be there? I confirmed this in the BIOS, and tried to go about fixing it by reseating the GPU and RAM (I have had a problem like this before that was fixed that way), and now I can't get it to boot at all (my theory is one of the RAM sticks was fucked and I ended up fucking up the other). Luckily I have a backup mini PC I bought last year that I intended to use as a home server but never got around to setting up. But while I was moving the old PC to storage, something sharp at the bottom of the case cut my middle finger! π΅ not so bad that I have to go to the hospital or anything, but it's deeper than most finger cuts I've had before. I was just getting back into guitar and now I'm gonna have to take a break from that for probably a week π.
On the bright side, the Fedora experience has already been a lot better so far, I always had minor problems with Windows on my old PC, mainly to do with intermittent wifi (only fixed by limiting it to wifi 3) and random crashes (which I think had to do with the GPU driver, but I'm not buying another GPU just to see if that fixes it), but Fedora Just Works. Also I was expecting to run into issues when moving the SSD from my old PC to the "new" one, but it's pretty much been a plug and play experience.
does anyone have tips for a gnome infestation. i tried publicly crucifying one to send a message but they seem to have founded a religion instead