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Hi,

jlai.lu is the french instance of Lemmy, some user posted this thread 16 days ago : https://jlai.lu/post/11504685, and a flamewar ensued between hexbear and the french, e.g. between happybadger and their administrator here.

Since they didn't really have any reason to defederate initially, they're now adamant that they should defederate only because of this discussion, since it proved that every Hexbear&Lemmygrad user is agressive(, as if jlai.lu users weren't agressive in this discussion as well).
I still find hard to believe that they could defederate on such weak basis, and it does feel like a convenient excuse, but that's what they're saying, ask them for confirmation if you don't believe it either.

They also used a list of post found on /c/MeanwhileOnGrad@sh.itjust.works as if it was representative, but it hardly counts as an argument, what a stupid situation...

They've now pinned this post for 12 days, and the defederation with both Hexbear and Lemmygrad seems unavoidable.
I've known this for more than a week but didn't care that much, yet when talking with them, and especially @Camus here, they/he said that they/he would like to talk to you. @Camus is very patient/nice, and you can look at his number of comments/posts to gauge his influence, probably their most active user(, kind of a french ☆ Yσɠƚԋσʂ ☆).
Well, to be more precise, he informally asked for some excuses from Hexbear, but my post here didn't reach them, perhaps because of "r*tard" in my username(, r*tardataire designate someone who's late in french).
However, more than excuses in the name of others, you only have to show him that we're not aggressive(, if you have some time, it won't change much in the end), something very easy/natural to prove for >90% of Hexbear users(, and perhaps >70-80% of Lemmygrad 🙂, it does feel a bit more bitter/serious here, not a criticism).

They have some communities that aren't that far apart from what could be found on Lemmygrad or Hexbear b.t.w., so it can't really be said that they'd reject us solely based on terrorism apologia, supporting Stalin, etc.(, even if their "leftist" admin is against socialist countries because our capitalists said that they're authoritarian).
Staying federated with a french instance would be useless for 99% of Hexbear and Lemmygrad, so if you intervene it'd mostly be on the behalf of current/future french users(, it can be nice sometimes to speak your native language without using an alt account), and perhaps also for Lemmygrad and Hexbear's reputation on jlai.lu.
If you're french, and/or simply nice, and want a chat with them, feel free to do so directly under the post or with @Camus.
(Kinda worth mentionning in passing that, currently, their top two posts of all time sorted by the most comments are the ones cited above about this defederation)

Also, keep in mind that this defederation is unavoidable though, if it doesn't happen now it'll be next year or the year after. As you know, reddit banned ChapoTrapHouse, GenZedong, etc., and we were quickly banned from lemmy.world and others, so we'll one day be banned from other "centrist" instances such as the french one. Just like we'd also be banned/censored by our governement if our numbers grow enough to disturb/'be a threat'.
Furthermore, Hexbear took action, and decided to defederate first without even trying to discuss more calmly. So don't waste too much of your time either(, but please don't go there unless you intent to speak calmly).

Thanks for reading :) !

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[–] ksynwa@lemmygrad.ml 26 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Well I would prefer if they did not defederate with us but if they are taking tips from a full-time anti-tankie from one of the more racist instances on Lemmy at large I don't know what one could say to sway them. Look at their list of posts. This post is linked as "Tankies celebrate r*pe". The mass r*pe story published by NYT was constructed entirely from second and third hand unverified accounts. Regardless of this no one in the screenshot is celebrating r*pe. Stuff like this should not be credible evidence for an anti-zionist and anyone who suggests this nonsense as grounds for defederation should not be taken seriously.

[–] CriticalResist8@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 1 week ago

They're building their own cage with this, but I have no interest of playing architect. Not my problem not my solution.

[–] soumerd_retardataire@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yea(, my "debunk" was « No comment does that, and I could show you more than one piece of evidence proving that we were at least partially lied to about this(, do you remember that testimony about them tossing around a severed breast in the air like a football ? Or the period when the accusation was made, even though it’s confirmed they only stayed for about ~4 minutes ? And all the other numerous lies about this attack, like the infamous mention of babies in the oven) »), but nobody interacted with my debunks of this list, including their admin 🤷, who preferred to answer me on other grounds, so i don't think that it matters that much to them(, even if it's still a (pseudo-)"argument" on their part).

I don’t know what one could say to sway them.

Only waste your time there if you don't have more important things to do, i don't think it'd change anything about their defederation in the long term, and don't really know what you could say, perhaps "hi, i'm an admin of Lemmygrad, do you want to discuss ?", but i don't see what would be the point, you can hardly convince them that we're not agressive and shouldn't be defederated on this basis.
It's stupid anyway, still worth to make a post, but stupid.

[–] WaterBowlSlime@lemmygrad.ml 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's wild how much flak lemmygrad gets considering most threads here get single-digit likes and comments. Even if we stayed federated, they probably wouldn't see posts from us unless they subscribed to genzedong or freechat. It makes me feel honored that we're considered as much of a threat as hexbear hahaha

[–] ComradePupIvy@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

In accedemic lituriture We are seen as far more of a threat and target and hex is mostly ignored

[–] WaterBowlSlime@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Right, there was that one dweeby guy who wrote an actual paper about us. Wasn't that before hexbear started federating? I wonder how he heard of one without the other.

[–] ComradePupIvy@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 1 week ago

I know atleast 2 of them where after federation. I cannot remember the first of his

[–] sevenapples@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Do you remember where you read that? Sounds interesting

[–] ComradePupIvy@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 1 week ago

https://lemmygrad.ml/c/useful_science

They are all here we must keep track of there usefull science

[–] MarxMadness@lemmygrad.ml 20 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)
  1. Be disingenuous, obnoxious, hostile, insulting, call people fascists and genocide deniers, etc.
  2. Get told to fuck off
  3. Piss and moan about how "fuck off" is some egregious breach of internet etiquette while all the other behavior is not

Tale as old as time

Edit: the mod whining about how "fuck off" is over the line says we should be killed. Good riddance.

[–] poo_22@lemmygrad.ml 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

as if jlai.lu users weren’t agressive in this discussion as well

I just posted a story on a lefty imageboard about some guy swiping my friend on the sidewalk and when my very weakly tapped him back in the face he made a scene like he was assaulted. Liberals are dangerous hyper-individualistic villains. I actually consider them a direct enemy of today's left, and not some neutral third party. These french users sound the same.

[–] SadArtemis@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Agreed, liberals always are a direct enemy of the left- and not merely a "lesser evil" to fascists, but equal and with no meaningful difference from fascists (which just happen to be their mask-off honest selves).

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[–] soumerd_retardataire@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I actually consider them a direct enemy of today’s left

Yeah, they're not really hiding it anyway. What's even weirder is that it doesn't stop at pro-capitalist liberals attacking anti-capitalist socialists(, instead of living together, as if ideologies had to fight until only one remains), but that even so-called socialists attack other socialists(, based on lies about freedom or w/e).
Oh well, don't see what i could do...

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[–] ComradePupIvy@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 1 week ago (6 children)

I mean I am not sure how this has to do with Lemmygrad, A butt hurt lib was mad that hexbear is very active and that how they have it set up they can see other fediverse posts. They are also mad that hexbear is leftist and has issues with their posting culture, posts something nothing happens, a year later same thing and there is a fall out, hexbear decides to defederate beforehand, and that situation is over.

Then we have the ever looming fact Lemmygrad is likely next, but lets be totaly honest here, Lemmygrad is always on the chopping block, because we are not liberals so we are either going aganst the interests of the bigger platforms or we are counter to what they have been told is acceptable, and so will kneejerk ban. Its annoying yes but not much we can do for it.

I get it sucks that they are walling us off from there users, however we cannot do much, best you can do is make an alt that just sits there. Honestly the most concerning thing I keep seeing is the Constant push to change platforms from the Lemmy platform to something else because the lead devs are communist, I basicly never see this done for any other political alignment in open source, however there is a bigger and bigger push for it here.

also why is the french instance a luxemburg domain?

[–] Pili@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

also why is the french instance a luxemburg domain?

jlai.lu is a play on the phrase "j'l'lai lu", which is a shortening of "je l'ai lu" meaning "I read it".

Just like Google's use of a belgian domain to shorten the YouTube url to youtu.be

[–] ComradePupIvy@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I did not know about the phrase... They are literaly making a french reddit

also I still dont love the use of the belgan domane for youtube

[–] Pili@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I did not know about the phrase…

It's alright, it's normal for someone who doesn't speak french to not know it, furthermore if it's the shortened form.

They are literaly making a french reddit

They actually are. Jlailu was the meme name that the french subreddit /r/rance gave to reddit (because reddit = read it = j'l'ai lu). They just copied that meme name and turned it into an actual reddit clone.

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[–] Aru@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

jlai.lu is the french instance of Lemmy

defedrate

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[–] AnarchoBolshevik@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 1 week ago

I have to admit, I feel disappointed whenever this community attracts negative publicity and it has nothing to do with me, even if it is only somebody taking something that I said so blatantly out of context. For instance, I eventually retitled this thread because 'economic boost' sounded less incriminating than 'boost to capitalism' and after I published this reply, I realized that it sounded kind of mean, yet I was surprised that I was unable to find anybody talking about it.

tous les régimes ML et associés terminent de la même façon, défendus par des tankies prêts à excuser des génocides tout en écrasant n’importe quel mouvement demandant de l’indépendance et de l’autodétermination, quitte à s’associer avec des fascistes qui ont, in fine, le même but politique qu’eux.

This is basically just a minor variation on the trope that we merely hunger for power (rather than wanting the power to end hunger). I've been around the block enough times to know that there is no evidence that I could possibly provide that this anti-Bolshevik would not dismiss out of hand, though sometimes I do wonder… would a generic anticommunist ever have the patience and interest in at least reading one of my many threads on fascism? Since I recognize fascism as a manifestation of capitalism and anticommunism, I suspect that the answer is 'no'.

[–] bennieandthez@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

is the goat our very own adrian zenz?

[–] soumerd_retardataire@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

He's also the mod of MeanwhileOnGrad, i didn't realize that(, but this list of post is based on nothing anyway, i've analysed it in french and the titles are way worse than the content).
And in any case, even if these accusations were pertinent(, they aren't), it'd obviously not be fair to judge an instance based on a community focused on archiving the worst 🤷.
(just to reiterate : this list of post is less important than the previous discussion in their eyes apparently, and there's also a third factor with their admin being "anti-authoritarian". Mostly, they've never interacted with Hexbear and Lemmygrad users before, but you could find some comments saying that it's nice to have us in their feed because they're learning a thing of two about anti-imperialism)

[–] leftascenter@jlai.lu 10 points 1 week ago (32 children)

I'm seeing quite a few misconceptions here and just like to clarify things a bit.

Jlai.lu is a French speaking instance with a majority of French users but also some Belgian, Canadian and Swiss users. The Luxembourg extension is pretty much the same as Redd.it being Italian, with the exact same pun used.

The instance is (European scale) left leaning, with a few leftists being very active (anarchists, communists, socialists...) and a majority of libs, most being libs, some left-leaning libs, a few econolibs. Fascists are immediately kicked out when identified, right-wingers usually end downvoted when explaining their views but are allowed. For context fascists are currently 1/3 to 1/2 of voters in France, depending on the cutoff you use, the whole right pushing to fascism for fear of socdem trying to be social.

An ass launched the idea of defederating hexbear for personal reasons, which turned into a few hexbear users becoming a nuisance on the thread.

The instance admin opened the idea of defederating here and hexbear as a discussion. I don't know why lemmygrad was mentioned at all. Hexbear defederated from their side.

Votes were cast on people reacting to the ass-thread more than real checking as there are very few interaction between the instances.

Jlailu admin stated that they were thinking about the issue and saw the vote as food for thought but not as a direct decision maker to defederate. Admin is against defederation. At no point is it deemed unavoidable. A few users have tried to point to "problematic" content, usually ending on whatever (didn't spend the energy cross checking, every instance has shitposts for who digs, admins having a life offline).

Not much to add except that translations are bound to hurt. In France :

Communism is seen as either a slur from people not knowing what it is or as an achieved form, but still usually including some actors of transition (Lenin, Sankara) but excluding others (Stalin, Xi). Don't ask why, that's not the point, it's just that's how french language evolved and the context needed if you start to dig.

Also, the French socialist party has become right-wing soc-dem (left wing socdem being LFI). The french communist party is... Something, not sure it's leftist (closest to communist/Marxist/socialist parties would be NPA or luttes ouvrières). So the words really need context.

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[–] CriticalResist8@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (7 children)

Il y a quand même un comble quand on vient défédérer une instance "autoritaire" et se dire non-autoritaire. C'est pas autoritaire de forcer la déféd ? Ce n'est pas intolérant d'empêcher les gens de parler entre eux ?

Comme quoi le gauchisme transcende les pays et les moeurs pour s'installer dans toutes les voies, le chien galeux qui marche aux côtés de Lénine à ses dépends, comme dans le poème.

Je tiens quand même à rappeler que la politique de sinicisation au Xinjiang est reconnue par le gouvernement Chinois, que ce soit culturellement ou via l’import de colons Hans.

Ah bon depuis quand ?

Pendant ce temps nous on continue de fédérer avec toutes les "vraies" instances lemmy, c'est elles qui défédèrent.

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[–] bennieandthez@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I find domenico losurdo "class struggle" very relevant book explaining the behaviour of western leftists.

Chapter 4, section 2 titled "imperial socialism" explains how western leftists turn a blind eye and delegitimize oppressed nations liberation struggles because they directly benefit from it, these "socialists" would gladly provide loyalty to their regimes in exchange of concessions. Disraeli and Proudhon being prime examples of it.

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