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this is all I post about any more I guess, coming out (mentions of transphobia)
Brought up my trans cousin. Parents deadnamed her. I don't have the strength to come out and start transitioning. This sucks. My parents have been very good, but I don't think they'll be as good on this issue. Sucks. Honestly even if I did come out I'd probably be living basically in the closet anyway, because I don't think they'd want my younger sibling knowing. And tbf I don't want to deal with that either. Probably wouldn't name or gender me correctly anyway, even if it was unintentional. All I wanted from them was hrt anyway, so I think I'm just going to diy it and hopefully move out. Need to do a few things but I think diy will be possible soonish.
I'm trying not to feel bad about not telling them. They have been very supportive of me my whole life. I'm just not ready to come out yet. Listening to Ada Rook's night in a secret world, its quite nice.
sex stuff, bodily functions
This seems to be the sex megathread today, so now’s a good time to ask: how do I get rid of boners? I don’t mean random erections, those have pretty much gone away, but rather all erections, including when I’m aroused. I know the advice for keeping erections is “use it or loose it”, but I hardly ever “use” it. Sometimes though when I’m reading, uh, “literature” it can get engorged. Is that contributing to it? How much is too much? Do I just need to avoid all sexy thoughts for a few months? I’ve been on hormones for a little over a year, but I don’t know if that’s earlier or later than normal for ED. I’m also wondering if, since I’m more of a “grower”, it might just be harder for me because it doesn’t take as much blood to get things moving. Any tips or advice would be appreciated, I’ve even considered getting a chastity cage just for this lol
i set off the post equivalent of a pipebomb talking about demolition man... i feel like jane spartan
More Bad Curly Hair Advice from a Nerd 
The subtext, the social cues, the vibes I am picking up, is that you probably aren't even supposed to have bangs with curly hair. I do though, lmao. The only way to get them into that kinda wavy, cascade-down-your-head state is usually straightening iron violence, I find. Idk how badly this damages your hair but if you're good with your hair oil of choice it should be fine? I guess? You can also just wet your bangs if you mess up with the straightening iron, at which point they should return to curly springiness, mine do anyway. It's really annoying trying to control em but oh well...
dieting
It’s really hard to judge if I should have lunch some days or not.
My mom either cooks dinners that are like a small chicken breast and some calorie-light vegetables and that’s it, or she’ll cook some fancy Italian thing that is like a lot.
So I’ll have nights like tonight where I go to the store later to get something more to eat, or the inverse where I only eat half/two-thirds of dinner, so I can stay at my 1000 a day budget.