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[โ€“] MelodiousFunk@startrek.website 55 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Live with underlying existential dread for decades. Watch as "doing what you love" becomes "hating what you used to love because you're forced to do it so that there's enough numbers in the computer to prove that you're worthy of continued existence." Contemplate the pointlessness of it all on a daily basis. Be reminded that your feelings are invalid because "other people have it worse" every time the topic comes up. Nod listlessly as "successful" people tout their own hard work while ignoring any factor luck and privilege played, then tune out when they shift into the dissonant duet of "I succeeded because I am exceptional" and "anyone can do the same if they just work harder."

Wake up the next morning and realize there's roughly 30 more years of this, barring a massive coronary or aneurism or something.

[โ€“] HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 6 points 9 months ago

barring a massive coronary or aneurism or something.

Fingers crossed! ๐Ÿคž

[โ€“] EvolvedTurtle@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

I need more therapy tbh