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[–] Boozilla@lemmy.world 25 points 11 months ago (3 children)

I 100% agree with this. Unfortunately it's also one of those things that a lot of people say but don't really mean. Like when they say it's OK for men to cry.

[–] BertramDitore@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

Oh this man cries, often. And this man thinks it’s completely natural, acceptable, and often enjoyable.

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 months ago

It's definitely OK for men to cry. Or, it's equally not okay for a woman to cry than a man. Lol

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 11 months ago

I totally cry.

I also tend to give gifts when I see something a friend would swoon over, and giving gifts for Christmas is weird.

I also don't really care about my masculinity or if I'm seen as sufficiently manly.