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[–] gnuplusmatt@reddthat.com 30 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (4 children)

discord is my compromise platform, because the only other platform all my friends could agree on was whatsapp, and fuck meta

[–] stebo02@sopuli.xyz 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

They agree on WhatsApp? All my friends want to stick to the horrible Facebook Messenger for some reason.

[–] gnuplusmatt@reddthat.com 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

We're a weird mix of nerds in our mid to late 30s, some care enough about privacy to not have Facebook, but had been on whatsapp since pre meta.

Some refuse to install new apps, because "ugh not another one"

Definitely a compromise

[–] KeenFlame@feddit.nu 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

They want to appear to care about privacy, you mean.

Because all of those apps own (literally or is their property) every image text and other data you give it

[–] gnuplusmatt@reddthat.com 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

there are levels of data hygiene and levels of inconvenience people willing to put up with. Pumping less data points into the machine is still better than pumping more

[–] KeenFlame@feddit.nu 1 points 11 months ago

I don't agree. Pumping more is better if you don't care. Because then it can provide the services of knowing you.

[–] modcolocko@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

So you chose tencent?

yes this is oversimplified blah blah

[–] gnuplusmatt@reddthat.com 8 points 11 months ago

it was a difficult choice - I pushed for them all to join signal, but there were some holdouts.

Whatsapp was e2ee, which discord is not. Discord can run in a webbrowser or a sandboxed flatpak on my desktop. All messengers suck, what ya gonna do?

[–] lemmesay@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 11 months ago

well, both are terrible choices.
discord: no end-to-end encryption
whatsapp: mobile number is your identity

but yeah, it's pick you poison.

[–] Filthmontane@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Been using Guilded, still needs a little work for the mobile app, but overall pretty good.