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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/8181688

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[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 40 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Hexbear comes here to be the debate bros they try so hard to dunk on. They are dying looking for just one little morsel of dunk. Not a good showing, not a leftist unity moment lmao

[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 43 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The post exclusively attacks Hexbear's ideological "left unity" position so it's kinda fair game for people from that position to want to say something in its defence.

The people doing marxist sectarianism instead of defending left unity are being dummies though.

[–] Catradora_Stalinism@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The people doing marxist sectarianism instead of defending left unity are being dummies though.

I mean you can't expect marxists to not critique anarchists? Left unity, yeah we can do that, but not arguing about everything with everyone? Nah.

[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 23 points 1 year ago

Depends. There's a line it crosses from maintaining left unity while doing critique versus becoming sectarianism, and it's not useful when it is.

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 13 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Yes to the first part. Although, I'll take this moment to say: hexbear's left unity could use a tune up

I'm just trying to talk about the latter behavior you described, which is kindof a symptom of what I mentioned

[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 24 points 1 year ago

Yeah I agree.

I think the issue here is that since left unity only has enforcement onsite, some are baited into sectarian arguments offsite.

There's also the issue that this is specifically posing left-unity as a marxist trick.

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[–] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 35 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What could be more left unity than MLs and anarchists coming together to embarass liberals?

[–] Ho_Chi_Chungus@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago

antler-bernie I am once again asking the mods for a new site headline

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

this meme is explicitly anti-left unity, as is the OP

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think the meme is a not-so-great way to address a dark topic.

But what I was talking about was the behavior of hexbear users in response that is also not cool.

But also I was just kinda fuckin around being entertained by the arguing and trying not to take it too seriously. I'm not here to take a strong stance. People seem to wanna make me take one but I'm gunna keep trying not to give a shit.

[–] combat_brandonism@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"I was just doing a bit, and you can tell how bothsides I am by how good the bit landed"

smuglord

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[–] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 28 points 1 year ago (2 children)

not a leftist unity moment l

You can't be a fucker like OP and then complain about the lack of unity in response

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm not complaining, I'm entertained.

And mostly using that language was me trying to reference the meme, try to bring it all full circle.

[–] brain_in_a_box@hexbear.net 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Would you say you're actually laughing?

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 4 points 1 year ago

I don't get the bit so I'm not gunna answer

Instead I'll ask a question

What?

[–] fushuan@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Oh no, there is unity. From the he bear users that came in as a brigade to drive the discussion out of the instance's users. There's more hexbear coments than any other instance what the fuck.

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[–] 420blazeit69@hexbear.net 27 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You criticize Hexbear for dunks, but also criticize them for responding at length with citations.

[–] 2Password2Remember@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

parentiquote.txt

Death to America

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wait I didn't mean to criticize citations I love citations mb.

What did I say I'll edit it

[–] 420blazeit69@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hexbear comes here to be the debate bros they try so hard to dunk on.

What sort of behavior are you critiquing here?

Personally I think "debate bro" stuff is more arguing for the sake of arguing/bending over backwards to defend even trivial or weak points, maybe with a sprinkling of going back-and-forth long after it becomes clear you're at an impasse. I don't see a lot of that here anyway.

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It involves a wide variety of behaviors, including the stuff you said, but primarily the first thing that comes to mind for me is the behaviour of trying to force/coerce people to engage in debates/discussions that they don't want to have or are otherwise unprepared to have, usually on the bad-faith preposition that anyone who is unwilling to participate in said debate/discussion must only be unwilling for the reason of being wrong.

[–] 420blazeit69@hexbear.net 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

debates/discussions that they don't want to have or are otherwise unprepared to have

I see your point, but I think this is seriously undermined when you have someone like OP who is willing to post all day about this, and occasionally willing to dip their toes into trying to raise real points, but then throws up their hands and says "hey it's just a ~~joke~~ meme" whenever they're in a tough spot.

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Eh, IMO it was more like they attempted to engage in response, and then tapped out when it went over their head. Or maybe they just got busy IRL.

It doesn't seem good to me to try and rationalize shitty behavior just because of a reason someone might deserve it.

Also tho, if you wanna call them a lib and consider them officially dunked, you don't need a certain response from them for it to work, you can just decide that.

[–] 420blazeit69@hexbear.net 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Or maybe they just got busy IRL

Looks like they've been posting pretty hard in this thread for at least 6-7 hours, often multiple paragraphs at a time.

It doesn't seem good to me to try and rationalize shitty behavior just because of a reason someone might deserve it.

It's not shitty behavior to make a political response to a political meme, or to point out when someone isn't having a good faith conversation.

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 year ago

Remember, I'm replying to 12 people here. Y'all are replying to just me.

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[–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Straight up misgendering half the posters lol

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Please don't. I take that seriously and it is obtuse to pretend you don't know the phrase "debate bro". It was a cultural reference, and I have no intention at any point of misgendering anyone.

[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Use debate nerd instead in cases where you don't want to gender people.

[–] 420blazeit69@hexbear.net 27 points 1 year ago

Debate pervert is also great

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 year ago

"debatenerd" I'm picking this up! But in my defense, I was saying "debate me bro", as in, someone who says "debate me, bro"

[–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So, there is this cool thing you can do called making memes gender neutral instead of calling trans women bros.

Since you take misgendering extremely seriously, I thought you should know about this neat trick.

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

This is a meme I am referencing after seeing it on hexbear. Specifically imitating their language to make a point. Maybe we should talk to them about it too. I obviously hadn't considered the full implications, and will not use that phrase anymore, for sure.

[–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You may also have seen "debatelord"

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't remember seeing that specifically, I might have, but I did specifically see the other several times.

[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago

I tend to use the term "debate pervert"

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[–] Catradora_Stalinism@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

broooo come on I thought we were cool

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm not trying to make enemies, or say hexbear is as bad as people make it out to be

This thread is just no good

[–] Catradora_Stalinism@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I mean communists are not well known for agreeing on things and not arguing about stuff.

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm not saying I think this is the end of leftism as we know it or anything. I'm just appreciating the bar fight I guess.

It hasn't been a friendly thread.

[–] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 22 points 1 year ago (19 children)

If OP had the tiniest scrap of good faith in their being, things would have gone differently

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[–] bigboig@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 year ago

They're starving, man