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[โ€“] grayman@lemmy.world 39 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Paying for something someone wants isn't the same as a surprise gift.

A parent buying a pet for their kids is actually a parent buying a pet for themselves; the parents very well know the pet is ultimately their responsibility.

I don't think anyone is saying to not do those things. It's the surprise of a pet that is heinous.

[โ€“] XTornado@lemmy.ml 5 points 11 months ago

Can still be a surprise that they want it doesn't mean they expect it.