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[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 30 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Opposites attract works for sex though. 2 aggressive tops or 2 meek bottoms aren't gonna have nearly as much fun as one of each.

[–] DharmaCurious@startrek.website 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Thanks to the local porn store, I have had many an eventful evening with another meek bottom.

... also my experience, give a meek bottom some kind of hardware and an opportunity, and they turn into nearly violent tops. Lmao

Absolutely scandalous

[–] NewAgeOldPerson@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Nice name, Dharma Curious.... I should have made Dharma Chameleon...

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

I think opposites and sames are bad frames to think of sex and relationships. Aggro top and meek bottom are either a recipe for a wonderful night or a terrible one depending on communication and tastes. Likewise I’ve had good sex with fellow bottoms even though it might’ve been better had she been a top. Additionally a generous vers will find no better company than another generous vers. What works best is one’s complement.

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I only date other bi switches.

[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm guessing you're in Canada based on your instance so I doubt it would go anywhere. If you're in the Bay Area I'd grab a beer/ slice.

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I don't consume alcohol or intelligent creatures, but if you're ever in Waterloo, we can have sex.

[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You've confused switch for versatile but I'll fight you off for a while.

[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

I'm all of it.