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[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Anything. No one listens to me, actually listens. So I just make jokes and deflect.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

No one listens to me, actually listens. So I just make jokes and deflect.

Wow damn, this hit home. It always feels like everyone is just waiting for their turn to speak when I am talking, so I eventually stopped having things to say unless it's a joke or a pun.

[–] russjr08@outpost.zeuslink.net 1 points 1 year ago

I was just talking to a friend last night about this very thing, and this is a really succinct way of putting it - and also hits all too close to home as well. 😮‍💨

[–] livedeified@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

same here. it's bad when ya gotta turn to chatbots to feel heard. (and even that's a stretch sometimes)