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[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 96 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nothing? She already has access to it all anyway...

[–] qooqie@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is the way, don’t hide shit, be open. If you feel the need to hide stuff from your gf/bf get out of the relationship. Them having full access is a trust thing and shows you’re mature enough for a serious relationship imo.

[–] balderdash9@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 year ago

100% my girl doesn't want to know and I don't want the headache if she did. It's okay to have privacy in a relationship