Well when other instances outright ghost your application people.will either discard the fediverse or join the ones with auto accept be it LM or mimmthe one I joined.

[–] XPost3000@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah I feel like the signup process isn't hard because the fediverse is confusing, it's hard because people don't want to write up an essay or preamble just to make an account

[–] Ardiente@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Both? I did for beehaw and a smaller one waited a day for both, neither responded.

[–] vashti@pawb.social 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I never heard back from beehaw, I've seen others say they got ghosted. Maybe they're just snowed under?