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Skipping over the game debate, wbere did this "my partnet" fad trend get started, instead of good married people talking about husband or wife, or single people talking about boyfriend or girlfriend? It's because linguistically it's not a natural or normal way of speaking, the phrasing sounds like it's from indocrination, saying "my partner", unless it.s part of a firm.
There are a lot of reasons for this, and it's been normal in some places for a very long time. If it's new to you, it's probably just a regional difference that you haven't heard it more. The way you worded your question makes me feel like you are trying to start a fight, so I think I'll push down my instinct to link you to resources.
I don't want to specify that, what's your problem?
The main reason for me is the implication of a certain legal status when you say husband/wife/spouse and that of a short term relationship when you say [boy/girl]friend. The only word I know of that says long term relationship but without the legal status is "partner" or "significant other".
For something long term like a "partner" of 5 years, is a joke of a relationship because there if there is no interest in marriage and a wedding after 5 years, it proves that at least one of the people is only wanting a good time for awhile and wants the freedom to dump the other person any day they feel like with no consequences or repercussions and move on to someone else any day they feel like it to be free and clear to cut out the other person from their life.
Howrar's being nice about it but here's the way I see it (sightly less nice):
Your views on relationships and marriage seem very traditional to me, and that's fine. Asking why people use words like "partner" or "significant other" instead of wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend is also fine. But just a heads up, you come off kinda shitty when you say "a joke relationship" and "proves at least one of the people is only wanting a good time" in response to something that's a little different from what you think a relationship should be.
I'm Canadian. Marriage doesn't have the same meaning here.