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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.

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Vegans being banned and comments being deleted from !vegan@lemmy.world for being fake vegans.

From my perspective, the comments were in no way insulting and just part of completely normal interaction. If this decision reflects the general opinion of the mod team, then from my perspective, the biggest vegan community on Lemmy wants to be an elitist cycle of hardcore vegans only, not allowing any slightly different opinion. Which would be very unfortunate.

PS: In contrast to the name of this community, I don't want to insult anyone here being a 'bastard'. I just want to post this somewhere on neutral ground. I would really appreciate an open discussion without bashing anyone.

PPS: Some instances or clients seem to compress the screenshots in a way they're unreadable. Find the full resolution here: https://imgur.com/a/8XdexTm

Linking the affected users and mods: @Cypher@lemmy.world @gaael@lemmy.world @gredo@lemmy.world @iiGxC@slrpnk.net @veganpizza69@lemmy.world @veganpizza69@lemmy.vg @jerkface@lemmy.ca @TheTechnician27@lemmy.world @Sunshine@lemmy.ca @Aqua@lemmy.vg

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[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 40 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Generally very radical vegans also have a right to their own community, however I also think there should be spaces for less radical veganism as well. It seems that currently there's none of those available, or maybe the general hostility of social media against vegans makes any of their more tolerant spaces eventually close ranks to protect their sanity. Unfortunately vegan spaces are constantly brigaded by trolls so it's understandable they have a very short fuse, and a lot of people get caught in the cross-fire.

I think the only solution here would be for a new vegan community with a focus on debate with non-vegans. However it will be tricky to find the right moderators for it who either won't be non-vegans themselves and therefore support a flood of concern-trolls and bad faith arguments, or be vegans that won't get immediately burnt out.

[–] Arcanepotato@vegantheoryclub.org 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

So, last time people were mad that vegans were mean to them this community got created:

https://lemmy.world/c/plantbased

Edit: I should finish my coffee before posting, the only post there literally points to this more active com lol: https://lemmy.world/c/plantbased@lemmy.dbzer0.com

See: https://lemmy.world/post/23634881

We all know r/vegan exists and is a cesspit of carnists, but there doesn't seem to be an actual demand for a 'plant based' space. I'm not sure why people would post about something they are kind of meh and not committed to?

If people are interested in just the food, there are communities for that:

I really don't think the rules there are onerous. Just don't talk about abusing animals and don't be a jerk to the other posters and you're good?

[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com 41 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Hey, I didn’t make plantbased to be a less committed version to veganism. I made it because from reddit to lemmy every vegan community I’ve encountered has power tripping toxic mods and I wanted to provide an alternative space.

I’m fully committed to my veganism. But I also wanted people who aren’t to be able to discuss it without being attacked.

After I wrote this I see you’re writing from a vegan instance. I have less experience with there versus vegan communities around here.

[–] fartsparkles@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

The hardcore/toxic crowd do nothing except alienate and turn people against the cause and make people think being vegan means being surrounded by assholes.

It’s people like you that welcome everyone into the discussion that inspire more people to try it out; you’re bringing about the real change.

[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 week ago

That’s so extremely nice of you to say :)

[–] NaevaTheRat@vegantheoryclub.org 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Lol, every vegan I know which includes a chunk of my own family went vegan because of militant vegans.

I see lots of carnists with no intention of going vegan talk about how militant vegans are bad but I have never actually met someone who is vegan and stays vegan that found wishy washy people motivating or inspiring.

[–] Soulg@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 week ago

You can be committed and firm on your issue without being a raging asshole about it at the same time. Most of the vegan communities I've come across don't even talk about being vegan, it's just finding more ways to shit on non vegans.

[–] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm not even a vegetarian but I am slowly trending y'all's direction. Finding good recipes or product recommendations is key to getting my family to come along with me.

I appreciate being, if not welcomed, at least quietly tolerated!

[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I view that as a net positive :) trying to force people to change in one moment will never succeed.

You’re more than welcome! I view it as a space to learn and explore, not to be judged by what level vegan you are lol

The only thing I’ve moderated recently is people pushing meat in the community or being rude.

[–] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago

pushing meat

Tee hee

[–] NaevaTheRat@vegantheoryclub.org 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

vegantheoryclub has both a home cooking (beware the rules re recipes), and a recipes community. There is also a discord linked with lots of pinned and extremely yummy recipes.

You are absolutely welcome to have a look, and you will not run into moderation issues unless you promote carnism. For example: wow that looks great, I'm going to have it with lamb" is as welcome as pissing in someone's face, but asking for recommendations, tips, or suggestions is completely fine.

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I should clarify: when I refer to people who aren't committed to veganism I am referring to the same people you are referring to when you say "people who aren't", i.e. the non vegans discussing veganism.

[–] Plum@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm apparently banned from vegan theory club. I have no idea what I could have done to them.

[–] neurospice@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Lemmy world is a blocked instance on vegan theory club. @Arcanepotato@vegantheoryclub.org won't be able to see your comment.

[–] Plum@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Wow. Thats... their choice, I guess. All hail the fediverse.

[–] toomanypancakes@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

They got sick of trolls invading and demanding to be debated, and lemmy.world was one of the most egregious instances. I can't blame them, vegans deserve a place to just be without every discussion turning into a debate with non-vegans.

[–] Plum@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Fair. Nobody deserves to get brigaded for living quietly and authentically.

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[–] Blaze@feddit.org 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Probably? I don't know. It started with the same mod team, didn't it?

[–] hamid@vegantheoryclub.org 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Vegan Theory Club is more radical and different in scope. It is definitely not a place to debate veganism. I let them come to my instance after some nonsense about lemmy.world and we're not federated with lemmy.world. Vegan Theory Club is social media for vegans specifically.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It is definitely not a place to debate veganism

What we see in this post seems to be a debate among vegans about what kinds of places are best to support. Surely that should be welcome in a place called "vegan theory"? It's a form of "debating veganism", just not one between vegans and omnivores.

[–] Arcanepotato@vegantheoryclub.org 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If I understand my history correctly, Vegan Theory Club is a theory club for vegans, not a club for vegan theory specifically.

There is a discord server of the same name which is way more active for the discussion of leftist theory. Members of the instance can make communities - it's just no one has created one specifically to talk about vegan theory.

Hamid was respond to a suggestion for communities for vegans to debate carnists which db0 correctly identified as draining.

I'm not sure what debate between vegans would be. Debating our interpretation of texts? There is a book club community that's perfect for that.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’m not sure what debate between vegans would be

Literally what I just said. "Is it better for one restaurant to succeed with 100% vegan food while most other restaurants entirely lack vegan options, or for every restaurant to have a couple of good vegan options?"

Your instance admin seems to have established (in the comments of this thread) a pretty clear strong opinion on that topic, but a less obnoxious community could have debates like that among themselves and create fruitful results. Which is what it seems was happening in the thread this post is about, until the mods of the LW vegan community put a stop to it.

[–] NaevaTheRat@vegantheoryclub.org 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I really don't know why carnists have such strong opinions on vegan spaces.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 4 points 1 week ago

For the most part, I don't care. But I do care about abuses of power, whenever I see them. And that's what is clearly going on at the LW community, and disappointingly seems to be the case also at VTC.

[–] hamid@vegantheoryclub.org 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

There is no debating on the side of allowing a restaurant to serve meat on a vegan messaging board. Debating this is missing the point of veganism entirely and my user community understands this and is why they created an account on a small instance like Vegan Theory Club. We are of a similar mind and the club is for people to find people on the same page as them. It works, we have off lemmy resources and an active discord. Veganism isn't a diet, it is a social justice movement to end the human exploitation of Animals, debating that serving meat is ok would get you banned on my instance as well. Personally I would have shut down a vegan restaurant before introducing meat and reopened as something else.

I don't personally eat at non vegan restaurants ever. I almost never go to restaurants at all frankly and prefer potlucks and cooking at our homes when I hang out with my friends. https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/anonymous-prole-info-abolish-restaurants

[–] rbn@sopuli.xyz 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)

There is no debating on the side of allowing a restaurant to serve meat on a vegan messaging board.

In an ideal world I'd love to have only vegan restaurants and everyone being vegan globally. As this is not within my power, I am looking for a way that benefits veganism the most.

I think the easier it gets to be vegan, the more people will get on board. If you get vegan options only in specialized places in big cities, that will make it hard for anyone not living close to that or being part of social cycles not 100% vegan.

If a purely vegan restaurant survives economically, I am more than happy. But if they don't, I definitely prefer them to add a few omnivore dishes rather than closing completely and getting replaced by another steakhouse.

I don't think having this opinion makes me any kind of bad vegan or fake vegan but I'm happy to hear your points if you think otherwise.

I think the piece of information that is being missed is that VTC is inherently anti capitalist and therefore the concept of "supporting businesses" so that they can survive doesn't really make sense in that context. (See link Hamid posted)

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Just in the context of trying to get a work group to go to lunch, finding a place that fits everyone's diets is tough, so if a place exists that is one, and only one, diet type then big groups wont be able to go there for business events or catering. Depending on the location, that could be a huge revenue source missed.

[–] catloaf@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Is there anyone who would genuinely be unable to find something they can eat at a vegan restaurant?

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

"Can eat" is different from "would want to eat".

[–] psud@aussie.zone 6 points 1 week ago

Some of us have allergies that limit commercially prepared food in general. In a restaurant the only thing I'd dare order is steak with no sauce

I feel I would not eat in a vegan restaurant.

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

This, and people who are dealing with gut issues, such as IBS or Crohn's

[–] hamid@vegantheoryclub.org 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Veganism is in its core a boycott, so that is the default take. I don't live in a big city so I don't go to restaurants. If you read the link I posted, I think there are a lot of problems with restaurants that go beyond veganism and they are offensive to me as an anarchist. I strongly dislike businesses, business owners and I like to do things for myself. To that end the more I lean on a life of compromise the less I feel is being done. By organizing pot lucks, friends dinners, participating in my local Food Not Bombs and promoting home cooking I am building an alternative to the carnist structures in our world that is more meaningful than making an individual decision to go to a carnist business and give them money that they then invest in more carnist businesses. This is also why I don't really like buying products labeled "vegan" from meat companies or buying impossible burgers from Burger King, we aren't convincing them to switch, we are participating in horizontal segmentation where they carve out two markets from one that don't cannibalize each other. I used to have the meeting notes from an shareholder meeting at Burger King where the CEO explains this but I lost it in my international move a few years ago among all my boxes of computer stuff. https://www.investopedia.com/terms/h/horizontalmarket.asp

I think adding meat dishes to a vegan restaurant and still calling it vegan is offensive and anti-vegan. If you want to go to restaurants then I guess that is a compromise you have to make for your own reasons but I don't think that it is vegan decision in scope. I don't attack people online or in person for it but I don't think you'd be a good fit for a community of radical vegans and anti capitalists. I probably wouldn't remove your comments from a message board like he lemmy.world one which is basically a vegan news community and appeals to beginners and transitioners but I would remove it from my instance. There is no requirement to go to restaurants in this world and my life got more interesting when I stopped going to places like that.

I think the easier it gets to be vegan, the more people will get on board.

But if they are not participating in the vegan boycott, are they on board? I've been a vegan for a long time and understand people are at different places, that said the biggest problem is recidivism. The longer you go as a vegan making compromises the less likely that you're going to stick with it. For me this meant that at one point I needed to actually change my life and social groups to align with what I believe instead of forcing what I believe into a world that doesn't agree and is hostile. For me this was a good decision, I made new friends, I have new things to do and I'm far more socially active as a mid 40s vegan in my vegan world than most of my old friends and coworkers are.

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Veganism is in its core a boycott

no, it's an ethical philosophy. are kosher Jews boycotting lobster?

[–] hamid@vegantheoryclub.org 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Yes. I was raised haredi and we boycotted all non kosher businesses by not buying from them and building out kosher alternatives. I don't think you know what the word boycott means.

[–] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Isn't that akin to saying 'Muslims boycott pork'. A boycott implies you're doing it temporarily with the purpose of achieving some change in the boycotted party. If something is a core way of life to you, it's no longer a boycott, as there is nothing the boycotted party could do that would change your mind.

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[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 week ago (3 children)

that's not a boycott. it's just acting on your beliefs. there is no political goal in abstaining from nonkosher businesses.

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[–] Blaze@feddit.org 3 points 1 week ago

Thanks for clarifying

[–] timestatic@feddit.org 5 points 1 week ago

I think you go way to lean on the mods. I don't think its anything but power tripping for a few mods to decide who gets to be a "real vegan" and who is a "fake vegan" if they don't actually consume animal based products.

[–] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

A lot of "their own community" types can keep themselves to themselves.

Dear everybody: if your posts appear to the public, the public's gonna show up and talk to you. No popular website is your unquestioned megaphone. Be prepared to argue if you target people who disagree. That is what it means, for them to disagree.

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 week ago (7 children)

That's not how it works. Just because someone is letting you listen in doesn't mean you deserve a platform in their spaces

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