The more I look into genders and try to understand it the less I understand. On the gender wiki (apparently gender is so complex it has its own wiki??) I was reading about 'genderfae' and 'genderfoe' kinda understanding it, kinda not. But when I got to the comments and I saw "gender ≠ pronouns" in the comments and I just gave up trying to understand anything 😭
I'm sure I'll look into it more at some point but for a '3am browsing Wikipedia because I can't sleep™️' adventure I did not have the critical thinking for that level of thought

[–] Jumi@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

When someone tells me their gender I nod and move on. I neither really care nor do I care to understand it.

[–] Threeme2189@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 days ago

Exactly my thoughts.

I'll call you whatever you want, as long as it's not too wacky.

It's all good as long as you feel comfortable in your own skin. I couldn't care less what you identify as, it doesn't impact my life in the slightes.

You do you.

[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 5 days ago

FWIW I would consider regular Wikipedia a much better source to learn about transgender 101 topics, the stuff you’re talking about is really niche even within the trans community, haha

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 5 points 4 days ago

The gender wiki is a bit much for me. I think a lot of its articles need to get revised a bit.

[–] Soleos@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

I see it as a heightened period of different people "trying shit out" when it comes to new gender identities. None of these are necessarily definitive norms that will define future society. As with any aspect of language and culture, it's a part of an ongoing process of evolutionary change, adaptation, and discovery. Some might call it a church, some might call it a shifting paradigm, but it's always going to be a bit messy and won't necessarily make perfect sense right away.