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Where do I find clubs? Been searching for an answer ever since the library in my city didn't even have a bulletin board
Rural US will be a shitshow for it.
There should be one in most places people congregate for fun: rock gyms, state parks/NF orgs, community centers, sewing/hobby stores, sorts leagues, idk... Can't hurt to literally call around. It's super awkward but "hi i have an interest in this and want to know how i can get involved" usually has two possible answers: "Idk", or "OH YEAH! Check out these resources!"
You can also try community colleges and sometimes universities. Clubs may be open to the public.
That requires a highly regional specific answer. I could give a dozen answers, but did you ask the librarian for help? In the US a librarian should be able to help you figure it out for your city.
Have you tried Meetup? I found some interesting board game groups there.
I found 1 (one) online d&d session, from Istanbul where I don't live
İt's not great, Facebook's even worse