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i do not believe these words should be abandoned!

in this post i hope to call attention to the same destructive processes happening to “neurodiverse” as to all the other terms. particularly i want to call out the ableist motivations behind it. my intent is to critique society’s weaponization of words, not the words themselves.

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[–] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Maybe don’t go back in the corner? You need to learn to stand up for yourself otherwise you’ll just be bullied for the rest of your life.

Not just you, anyone with this attitude.

Oh boo fucking hoo they’re mean to you? Be even meaner.

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

Or we could just not be mean.

[–] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

And let people walk all over you and then complain about being the victim. Mean people don’t deserve kindness, they deserve the same energy they’re giving out.

Taking the high road doesn’t work.

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

It's not kindness, it's nothing. They don't need to be in my life. I don't need to be in their establishment. My mean quota for my life is already full.

[–] Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

The sad reality is that people will always be mean.

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Then they can be mean to someone else. I don't have the time to deal with that in my life.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 2 points 2 hours ago

honestly i love being mean. especially to people who have been mean to me.

but! it’s trivial when i’m mean to use insults that don’t implicate the identity of disabled people or other marginalized groups

cc @Maggoty@lemmy.world @inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com