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Neurotypicals - Is it rude to share a similar story after you share something that might be emotional or traumatic? (hexbear.net)
submitted 3 days ago by ratboy@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net
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I keep hearing that this is frowned upon, but I cannot help it. After I share, I circle back and explain how and why I connected the two stories to try to recenter the other person. Is this annoying? How do you want ND people to respond in that case?

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[โ€“] ratboy@hexbear.net 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Oh wow that is SO AWKWARD. Yeah, I definitely know better than your boss to do something like that. Even if they didn't spin out I feel like saying "I don't know what i would do if..." can already turn the attention around so I try to avoid it

I think I tend to connect with people Moreso on past events than current ones, but a good rule of thumb to try to keep in mind

[โ€“] D61@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago

It is definitely easier to navigate a situation were the ratio of Emotion to Experince is closer to 1:1 instead of 10:1.