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Just did my former friends earlier this year.
Life is life. Gets crazy and we don’t work together anymore so we don’t get much time to hang out.
He blew up on me about me never reaching out but like when? And I apologized and said I would try to make a better effort to reach out.
After about an hour, he never texted me back and I realized that the last message sent before he blew up on me was me reaching out to him a few weeks prior and he never responded! So like wtf dude.
So then he or his wife said something and I never responded and they texted me a few times for a few days after but I never replied, let alone read the messages.
I was already on the edge about them anyway. They had a problem with everyone. Everyone eventually had a problem with them and it makes me feel like they’re likely the problem people in their various situations. They were very strict about things and it just never felt right with me.
I gave them my car that I was no longer using and they were super appreciative which is how we became friends, but I honestly was just trying to be nice. I wasn’t really looking for friends.
Idk. I feel bad about it sometimes but I also feel like it was long overdue for us to no longer be friends anymore.