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I'm a little unclear on how the furry identity works. Is it like an LGBT+ thing where you just are this thing regardless of your feelings or desires, or does wanting to be a furry make you one? Like, I've fought against being trans much of my life, but now I see I pretty much always was. But I don't know if liking the puppygirl idea makes me a furry, or if that's something I have to have always been? (this is not a reaction to a recently popular puppygirl, I've meant to ask this for a while) I also may be terribly misunderstanding furries; that's a taboo subject where I live, so I don't know much.

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[–] propter_hog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

A Buddhist monk once told me all that is required to "be a Buddhist" is just to decide one day to be Buddhist. There's no ritual or prayer or demonstration; there's no exam to make sure you're "Buddhist enough".

It's the same way with furry and lgbtq+. If you think you are, you are. Welcome.

[–] SocialistDovahkiin@hexbear.net 5 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

The one hexbear user Buddhist queer furry reading this is pretty/handsome/cute (pick a complement) catgirl-heart

[–] propter_hog@hexbear.net 3 points 20 hours ago

I'll take all three ☺️