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[–] LustyArgonianMana@lemmy.world -5 points 1 week ago

He stated that he wanted control of finances as his main motivator, not abuse.

Yes, the best way to teach your kids how to handle abuse is by being a role model. Sometimes that means leaving the abusive parent and making a safe place away from the abusive parent. How can an 18 year old learn the skill of leaving their abusive parent if it was never modeled to them and the nonabusive parent stuck by them no matter what?