Asklemmy

Well, tbh, we don't bother with it at all now. There's not enough kids doing it to merit the expense or effort involved (and it ain't like either are high enough to matter, which shows how bad Halloween has gotten).

But, yeah, back when kids still did it, who cares about costumes? Halloween isn't dressupday. There's other traditions involved, including kids running around and having fun just for the sake of the fun itself.

Besides, who am I to determine whether or not someone needs a costume? They might not be able to afford one. They might have some weird religious thing about masks or whatever. They might have some medical issue that prevents a costume. They might have had a costume, but something happened to it. I don't know why they're not wearing one. But if they show up at my door, they're celebrating Halloween. They're taking part in not only a community activity, but a very human activity. That's worth some candy by itself.

Shit, I've given candy to adults that rolled up and said trick or treat because it isn't only about kids. I've handed extra candy to adults and kids that asked with the explanation there was someone that couldn't make it. IDGAF if it's true or not, it isn't about me.

I fucking miss Halloween the way it used to be. You'd think in this bumfuck nowhere semi rural town, we'd still have people out and about. But no, we haven't had a single visitor on Halloween since covid. Even before that, it was two or three the entire night and had been for years.

There was so much fun in putting on a Halloween playlist, or movies, or whatever and waiting to see or hear someone coming. Even if I didn't dress up myself, it was fun to see everyone out and enjoying the night. Hell, back when I was still in physical therapy, on a bloody walker, I was in the living room ready to go. Hopped up on pain meds, but still.

I'm envious that you live somewhere it's still a big thing, costumes or not.