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this has been on my mind a lot. I follow some lesbian meme shitposting groups and there's tons of memes that are just like "This girl looked at me and I died and then she smiled at me and I came back to life" and I just cannot think of any cishet men's spaces that bring that have that level of absolutely dorky dysfunctional love for women. And, like, cishet men, their whole thing is supposed to be being in to women, and that just strikes me as really weird that there's not an equivalent. Like the closest I can think of is wife guy memes but that's just one wife, usually.

Do any spaces like that exist? Is it even possible given the way gender works in society?

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[–] RNAi@hexbear.net 25 points 1 month ago (3 children)
[–] witheyeandclaw@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 1 month ago

I was thinking that I see it in greentext memes, on the off chance I see a greentext meme.

[–] geese_feces@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah that's what I was gonna answer. Especially the /r9k/ board. Greentext stories about getting so flustered when a qt3.14 makes eye contact that you spill your spaghetti.

[–] Frank@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

now that you mention this when I was, idk, maybe 12? I got so flustered by a pretty girl I walked in to a swimming pool. Haven't thought abut that in thirty years.

[–] RNAi@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago

Yer doxxing yourself

[–] StalinStan@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I feel like tumbler would have better but it is hard to guees who would be easier to find