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Like most other people here, I originally came here from reddit. Ive been having a blast so far, and I much prefer the forum-style of this. After about a week of using Lemmy I realized there was something intrinsic to reddit that Lemmy doesnt have. And I wont miss it. Too many people on reddit were way too horny. I was really annoying, but Lemmy seems way more chill. Plus its refreshing knowing that the people on here arent all bots.

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[–] TheCuriousCoder87@lemmy.ml 31 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I am still horny. I am just waiting for someone to make a popular NSFW instance. I have considered doing it myself but I doubt I would have the energy to manage it.

[–] biscuitsofdoom@beehaw.org 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I have considered doing it myself but I doubt I would have the energy to manage it.

Because of the masturbating?

[–] TheCuriousCoder87@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

😆 No, I just got a lot going on in my life at the moment.

[–] PascalPistachios@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Before you are two paths. One is cracking that hog. The other is becoming a cranky mod. Choose wisely.

[–] Lux@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

Cracking? 💀

[–] utopianfiat@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

cracking that hog

😣😣😣

[–] PascalPistachios@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What? You don't hear a one to one recreation of cracking 5 glowsticks in your hand when you jerk off?

[–] utopianfiat@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Suddenly reminded of the video of the kid microwaving a glowstick and their father calling them a ding-a-ling for ruining their awesome shirt.

[–] SemioticStandard@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Someone did, though there’s nothing on it now https://lemmynsfw.com/

[–] corsy@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

if i have to go first, well... i will, but i won't like it

[–] nfld0001@beehaw.org 7 points 1 year ago

I wouldn't be surprised if the current round of departures from Reddit leads to someone out there making an NSFW focused instance. Maybe not in the timeframe some would want, but it feels inevitable for better or worse.

That reminds me an aspect to Lemmy and similar federated platforms that I think will be nice, whether Horny or Not!Horny: an instance with a particular focus can get invested in the policies and practices that benefit that kind of focus to a degree that really isn't possible with a big, central tent like Reddit. Federation also means that hopping between instances to cherry pick the kind of fine-tuned experience you want is going to be a lot easier. I'm guessing that finding different instances might become a bit more difficult over time, but I'm excited to see where things go.

[–] IcedCoffeeBitch@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

I will miss that too. However, I'm not sure how moderation on Lemmy works, but if only the admins get to moderate, it will be very exhausting to look through every NSFW community. Outsourcing moderation might help the situation, but considering even big corporation owned websites struggle with illegal content being posted, imagine a small community like Lemmy currently is.

A shame, Reddit is the only website I've found that had a few subs posting trans porn without being fetishizing and/or male gaze-y.