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What are your opinions on using transgender vs using transexual? Ive been seeing more trans feminine people use transexual to refer to themselves these days and I thought I had it figured out but im confused. Originally, how i saw it was transphobic dolls trying to distance themselves from the rest of the transgender community at large. But the more i read about trans theory and talk to trans women, im finding more and more "cool" trans women calling themselves transexuals. What am I missing?

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[–] Procapra@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Transsexual just means you've had some kind of trans related medical intervention (usually bottom surgery, but it can sometimes be used more broadly too). It's not a flex word, or a word meant to make other people feel less, it's just a descriptor that some folx prefer to use. In general you shouldn't be calling other people that unless you know for sure its something they are okay with, but people are free to call themselves whatever they want.

I am one of many people who dislikes terms conflating gender with procedures & medications as gender has nothing to do with that, so I default to terms using sex (SRS, Transsexual, etc). It's not perfect ofc, but there is precedent for that language so I think it's okay for now.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today 10 points 2 months ago

Transsexual just means you’ve had some kind of trans related medical intervention (usually bottom surgery, but it can sometimes be used more broadly too).

Not even that is something that's universally agreed upon.

For example, from Whipping Girl:

It is common for people to assume that being or becoming a transsexual involves some kind of “sex change operation.” However, this is not necessarily the case. While some transsexuals undergo numerous medical procedures as part of their physical transitions, others either cannot afford or choose not to undergo such procedures. Indeed, attempts to limit the word “transsexual” to only those who physically transition is not only classist (because of the affordability issue), but objectifying, as it reduces all trans people to the medical procedures that have been carried out on their bodies. For these reasons, I will use the word transsexual to describe anyone who is currently, or is working toward, living as a member of the sex other than the one they were assigned at birth, regardless of what procedures they may have had. Further, because there are so many different paths that a transsexual person may take toward living in their identified sex, I will use the word transition to describe the process of changing one’s lived sex, rather than in reference to any specific medical procedure.

Would be cool if we could have consistent definitions for words, but doesn't seem like that's likely to happen.