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Me, LGBT: hahahahaha... oh you were serious? HAHAHAHAHA no.
What are you on about? Gay marriage was literally legalized by democrats.
(rant in general, not directed at you)
Straight, cis people: "you can do one thing, isn't that enough? why do you have to be in the spotlight all the time?"
Me, standing with my trans+enby friends, after being fired for who we fuck and what we look like, and regularly treated like dogshit in public: "....."
Marriage is a decent start, but especially bullshit like "right to work" states where employers can sack you for literally anything, and LGBT not being a universally protected thing, is shit. Yeah yeah "sex" is by law but I direct you to the first half of that sentence, and you'll see the issue. Progress, yeah, but being the solution to our many issues, marriage is just a piece of the pie.
Hell, my best friend had to go through some gymnastic-bureaucratic bullshit because the state they live(d) in was putting up unnecessary requirements just to change their sex on their drivers license. This was after months of them seeing a therapist, hrt, physical changes, etc - but still wasn't good enough for the state. So it was easier to get their transition accepted via their birth state (I think by altering the birth record? Not totally sure, I didn't want to pry), where they had much more sane requirements, and then come back to the state they live(d) in with a 'see here bitch, now change my shit'. Took a month or so all-told, but they got it done.
Plus things like raising a family (adoption especially), being passed up for employment or promotions, denied housing... but we have marriage, so it's all good, right?