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I think this is a good question for a therapist. I mean no disrespect. Feeling the need to label shelves with the things on them sounds like a compulsion. As does oscillating between hoarding and purging and several other things you said. A therapist can help you manage these desires and keep you out of the rabbit holes.
Holy crud, that's a new hot take. Changes that occur over decades and because of different living conditions doesn't account to "oscillating" if you actually read my comments. Also, you've apparently never lived with multiple people and a large pantry, this is just basic organization like a linen closet your grandparents had. You didn't have to label them in the past because usually a singular person was in charge of placing everything (never heard of the husband trope that can't find anything?).
The difference between what I would "imagine" a good organizational setup to be versus what I'm willing to actually do is a huge gap. If you had any clue about my actual life the compulsion comment would be rather hilarious. I would suggest not looking at a few internet comments and immediately telling someone to seek therapy with an arm-chair diagnosis you've deemed responsible, that in itself seems like an unhealthy disorder.