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I’m new to the bidet scene, and this one has me slightly confounded. Should I install a new towel rack next to the toilet? Should my wife and I share the towel? Do you wipe first? There are so many unanswered questions in the ways of bidet-ing!

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[–] dustyData@lemmy.world 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

People would rather have a filthy body than touch their own bumhole. I don't get it, it is your own body, what is so icky when you are in the process of cleaning it? Would you rather live with a stinking baby with a dirty diaper, or change the diaper and have a clean space? Same thing, just deal with the thing asap and be done with it. This is why we invented soap. I swear to god this is same people who would scratch their navel then smell their fingers, or would eat earwax, but won't touch their bums in a shower because it is gay. Guys would decry bidets but then go eat ass and pussy without a hint of self-awareness.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago (3 children)

None of this explains why it's not cleaner to use toilet paper than your hand after using a bidet...?

[–] dustyData@lemmy.world 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You don't use your hand afterwards, you use your hand to wash along with the bidet, then you dry with TP or a towel. It is not demented. It is just washing like how you are supposed to wash when you shower.

[–] rishado@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago

I learned some time ago that some Americans just will never be ready for the bidet conversation, just let those people live in filth

[–] Bahalex@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago

Read the comment with instructions man. Wipe with toilet paper first, as normal. Then wash with soap and water. Then dry with a towel. If you’re smearing poop all over everything you’ve got other issues to work out.

To answer your question, it is cleaner than just using toilet paper because you are wash with soap and water after you use the toilet paper. If you manage to get poop all over the towel when you’re done washing, then TP alone was never going to suffice.

[–] stephen01king@lemmy.zip 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Because dry spreading your poop with toilet paper is not cleaner than washing your butt together with water.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Not what I said. Bidet + TP vs bidet + hand

[–] stephen01king@lemmy.zip 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Ah, I see, I thought the bidet part only relates to your second option, there. I guess one reason to use your hands is that in some countries, toilet paper is not commonly provided, so it's not always an option.

[–] rishado@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago

No one only uses their hands guys. You use your hands in tandem with the running water to get all the shit off. Then you wipe with TP (modern) or a towel (more common before TP).

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Yeah it would be cheaper I suppose, that's fair

[–] rishado@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

No one only uses their hands guys. You use your hands in tandem with the running water to get all the shit off. Then you wipe with TP (modern) or a towel (more common before TP).