theblueredditrefugee

Is raddle federated with lemmy and kbin? Haven't seen any of those posts show up here - just now learning about it

Literally just ppl post whatever tf they want there lmao. The only rule is "post shit". I always thought it was weird

just fucking defend the reactionaries why don't you. Bet you're the type who sees nazis committing genocide, and minorities fighting back, and says "man why can't both sides stop fighting????" Enough with the fucking respectability politics already. In an uncivil age, y'all motherfucker's calls for "civility" are just a device to squash all protest so you can get your way, not actually an argument made in good faith.

There's a difference between having an opinion I don't agree with and comparing being trans to "wanting to be peppa pig". And then when I rightfully get offended and angry they lose their fucking minds bc I dared insult them. It's happened many times, and yes, this is based on a real example from reddit. (tw: transphobia obviously)

Sometimes I wanna see what everyone else sees. That's why I also have an account on another instance. But sometimes I don't want the risk of seeing people question my right to exist (how often on reddit do I come across someone who's "just asking questions"). That's why I'm here. So glad reddit is dead now bc we're all here instead.

Lmao I could have told ya, I can barely do knee pushups since starting estrogen and spiro

Yeah, you gotta just try stuff out and see how you feel about it. If you have VR you can try out having breasts without committing to anything. Hard to try out bottom surgery though lol (still can't decide on phallus preserving or traditional and I've been going between the two for literally years).

I used to think I was some flavor of nonbinary but as I moved more and more feminine I realized that I'm actually extremely feminine and really don't like any nonbinary presentations at all. Obviously it's different for everyone so you gotta try stuff out and see what you like. I hear many nonbinary people do the reverse - where they go far from their AGAB at first and decide later that there are a few aspects of the new gender that they don't like. Enbies feel free to weigh in.

Just pick a color you like. Do you have a favorite color? If not pick one at random and try it, you can always remove it if you don't like it.

I like purple with a little texture (glitter is great lol).

OTOH, it's harder to get stuff out from under my nails when they're polished. Haven't painted them in a while but that's mostly bc I'm lazy lol. Been meaning to re-dye my hair for multiple months.