laurel

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[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 months ago

I enjoy documentaries where the footage comes from people who are shooting without a very good reason to be doing so. Top picks are likely:

  • Exit Through the Gift Shop
  • Grizzly Man

Very different reasons I liked these. And liked is maybe the wrong word for Grizzly Man.

Would love to suggestions of similar if anybody in this thread has favs.

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 1 points 9 months ago

We are definitely struggling against an unhealthy culture that makes this extraordinarily challenging. I think there is a misunderstanding where we think accepting greater support will decrease our personal autonomy and risk us being too reliant on others. However moving towards healthy interdependence should - and can - be an experience that actually frees the individual to experience more opportunity, greater stability, enhanced relationships, etc.

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 16 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Personally, I feel like it would be great to normalize therapeutic supports to such an extent that we can let go of the idea they represent something being "wrong" with anybody. We have collectively developed this bizarre sense that we shouldn't need each other, that you should have to face your challenges on your own.

If you are personally in the position where therapy is accessible to you, I encourage you to go for it - even if there is "nothing wrong with you" (lol) - and then recommend it to others, talk about how it helps you grow and learn, etc. The mental health world is still fraught with challenging, dangerous stigmas and the best way to improve that is to show others that it's the stigmas that are dangerous, not the supports.

 

The title. My inability to actively keep my workspaces organized is driving me insane and I would love to just set it & forget it.

Any advice is appreciated!

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

I found DBT tremendously helpful for learning how to navigate unstructured territory without becoming agitated by it. I have noticed my frustration tends to build up because I resist feeling uncomfortable, not because I am actually just uncomfortable. It’s counterintuitive and takes practice but it’s been eye opening how much something as deceptively simple as “accept discomfort” actually helps.

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Omnivore has been great so far for me. And Obsidian integration is flawless

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Holy shit this is amazing. Stunning capture too! What did you use to ID?

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

I have heard it simplified as "what goes in, must come out". If you are experiencing high stress without processing the stress, it will create problems for you physically. However if you are able to integrate stressful experiences mentally/emotionally, you wouldn't experience adverse effects. So it's really a matter of whether you hold onto stress or not. That said, I think anybody who is able to manage stress effectively and with a great deal of understanding is also going to be actively working to minimize their exposure to stress to what they know they can reasonably handle. There are other factors as well, such as the quality of your diet, the type of community surrounding you, etc. The Myth of Normal by Gabor Maté addresses a lot of this type of thing for anybody curious about how things are linked. Also some good videos on YT if you don't want to read the whole book haha.

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago
[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

Seems like the main purpose is so users always control & own their own content, sell access/ownership/etc.? This is a full and pretty detailed explanation on the LBRY protocol if you want to really dig in: https://lbry.com/what

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 year ago (5 children)

https://odysee.com/ is blockchain-based, built on LBRY. It appears to have similar features for discovery, interaction, etc. as YouTube. Still testing it out personally to see how it actually performs though!

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

Nice! I’mma check that out.

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