hllywluis

joined 1 year ago
[–] hllywluis@sh.itjust.works 39 points 1 year ago

I agree with everyone here on this, Lemmings is appropriate. Especially since most of the community likes it, I think choosing something that the community vibes with is important.

[–] hllywluis@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I totally get where you're coming from but I think humanity's tribal nature makes us want to identify with something on the platform we're on.. Some type of name that defines all of us.

[–] hllywluis@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Lol I think over my 11 years on reddit I only had 1.6k karma.. And while I love internet points as much as the next guy it's much healthier not to even see an overall count on here. Makes me hope that they don't add it so I don't have to be constantly worrying about what my overall score is.

[–] hllywluis@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Agreed, especially with how new Lemmy is, it just really feels like it needs our engagement to succeed and get more people to join.

[–] hllywluis@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

This. I usually try to avoid commenting just “This” and try to give more explanation why I’m saying that. Feel like that’s the proper way of doing it.

[–] hllywluis@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah I recently signed up for an account there and am going to explore kbin as well!

[–] hllywluis@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ironically enough, Reddit. I also use Google News on the side but most of the time I’m going to go to Reddit to see the discussion, which is why I kind of am missing that on here.

Hopefully with more users we’ll get more content and be able to replicate that experience!

[–] hllywluis@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Thanks for such an awesome instance that to me personally rivals the main lemmy.ml. I will most likely continue to use this instance as my main account, and will definitely consider donating in the future, whenever you open that up.

[–] hllywluis@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Lol okay so basically:

  • Social media like Twitter and Instagram can cause you to have self-deprecating/insecurity/generally not feeling good about yourself due to subconscious comparisons that you make with other people. So for example, if all you see is the highlight reel of celebrities/influencers then you're going to compare your life to them and feel bad about yourself.
  • I think the main point with Reddit is that sometimes you aren't part of the discussion/you're going to be focused on karma as well simply due to how the website works and you're up against bots/other competitors for that karma. The "internet points" are addicting for some and it becomes a major distractor from what really should matter in people's lives.
  • This goes for other social media as well, the main point of the paper is how by comparing ourselves to other people (even subconsciously) we run the risk of having worse mental health.
[–] hllywluis@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't think that's possible since each instance is kind of a silo from each other with regard to your activity on that specific instance, even if you post on other instances.. Like since you made a comment/post on one instance that activity stays on that instance.

[–] hllywluis@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Something that I will call out is that I really appreciate the live changes in the thread on the website itself. Makes interacting with comments and everyone a lot easier.

[–] hllywluis@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

That's right, your credentials are unique to your instance.

 

I wanted to get a pulse check on how new members are finding the general experience/website. Is it more confusing than Reddit or are you finding the instance system a better way of doing things as it can give you more freedom of where you choose to create an account?

I'm a new user myself but have found the experience to remind me of Reddit back in the day, lol. It's definitely giving me old-school yet modern vibes and it's great to see something that isn't Reddit growing in popularity!

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