thank you for kind words T_T
Does your partner have a problem with you not working?
no, not at all. they're also autistic, and they know how it feels. so it's all kinda... my projections, mostly. i know i'm not a burden for them, but i still feel like it.
because of the laws and privacy, mostly. i guess i need to rephrase myself: server should not be based in USA, that is. i just feel safer this way :D hope i word it fine...