_danny

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[–] _danny@lemmy.world 65 points 7 months ago

No, I think they're being literal. There is value that they want in your privacy.

[–] _danny@lemmy.world 24 points 7 months ago

Yes. I started during the pandemic when a significant portion of the people I respected suddenly deemed me as expendable.

I have a lung condition that put me at high risk, especially during the early days when there was no treatment available. Everyone I know with the same condition who got covid during the first ~8 months either is dead or has pretty severe long term damage that has left them practically bed ridden.

So when people I respected said they would not wear masks around me or even just stay the fuck away, I was the problem because sUrVivAl Of ThE FiTtEsT. I was unable to telework due to having a hardware specific job, and apparently it was too much to expect them to just keep their distance and/or wear a mask. Instead they would cough in my direction, literally say "I hope people like you die soon so this can all be over and we can go out to eat again" (ironically that same person still has a cough from their three months bout with covid in 2021). Yes I told them I had a lung condition, that only made the harassment worse.

I went to therapy for specific issues, how to handle the direct harassment and how to deal with having all the respect for a large amount of people disappear in about a month. I went through two different therapists on betterhelp. The first one was good at helping me through it, but they took more than a week to respond to messages. The second one was really good though. They really helped me just write off those people entirely, even if we used to be friendly those times are over and they made their choices. They also gave me some advice on how to convince my manager to provide reasonable accommodations and gave me a different office on the other side of the building.

I've been debating going back for some advice on some lingering health anxiety I still have from those days.

[–] _danny@lemmy.world 21 points 7 months ago

That you can have real change when your country doesn't have billions of dollars spent on oil propaganda.

[–] _danny@lemmy.world 5 points 7 months ago

Stack the apples on top of each other and cut from the top down.

[–] _danny@lemmy.world 58 points 7 months ago (6 children)

But a professional photographer taking a staged picture should know how to frame the shot so that the shadows work in your favor.

[–] _danny@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

There definitely is a critical mass needed for social media. Reddit hit critical mass around 2012 when digg imploded. When I joined reddit in like 2010, it felt very much like Lemmy currently does.

I think that's a major problem with Lemmy, because it's so disjointed it's hard to hit the critical mass needed to keep conversations interesting and fresh.

[–] _danny@lemmy.world 12 points 7 months ago (12 children)

Truly a once in a lifetime offer.

[–] _danny@lemmy.world 16 points 7 months ago

Or if the sister died.

[–] _danny@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

Averages are fine if you have a pretty clean dataset. But if you have significant outlier data, like most do, averages can be misleading.

Mode and median are generally better ways to get look at a "central tendency"

[–] _danny@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago (2 children)

I'm curious what query you used.

[–] _danny@lemmy.world 20 points 8 months ago (3 children)

This is why "average" is a shitty way to measure what values are likely.

If you have a thousand people who have a thousand dollars, and one person who has a billion dollars, the "average" person has a million dollars.

[–] _danny@lemmy.world 10 points 8 months ago

It's people having their battery die while they wait for an open charger.

 

I'm not seeing any ads, and these servers certainly have a cost.... So is this place entirely donation based, or what?

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