TotallynotJessica

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A lot of insights in neuroscience and psychology come from tragic incidents rather than experiments. The function of various brain regions has mostly been deduced by studying people with traumatic brain injuries. What little we do know about atypical development in children comes from tragedy as well.

There was a case study of a neglected child who experienced nearly no human contact for most of her life, and she had severe developmental delays compared to everyone else. The doctors mismanaged her care to an absurd degree, but not intentionally. From what they did observe, she was mentally typical outside of her lack of human contact. Her progress mostly stalled because the system didn't let her form meaningful relationships with parental figures. It's a really sad story.

In terms of gender, significant insights have been gained by misguided attempts to treat people with atypical sexual development. Intersex children still regularly undergo "corrective" surgeries to make their genitals fit the male/female binary. Many intersex people come out as transgender, only to realize that their genitals were altered at birth in unnecessary ways.

The doctors have tried to compensate by studying prenatal hormones to more accurately assign genitals, but the whole thing is fundamentally flawed. So long as the genitals don't pose a risk to the child's health, the reasons for doing the surgeries are purely normative. They just want the genitals to fit a binary because having them exist outside the binary is "abnormal," which they see as inherently bad.

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The surprising truth is that doctors are biased to believe that gender can be forced. It all comes back to persistent philosophical assumptions about identity that date back centuries.

  • Descartes viewed the self as something fundamental, the first thing we could be certain of. In actuality, our sense of self can be wrong, as demonstrated by trans people who thought they were cis, only to learn that they hate being their assigned gender and love being another.
  • Locke viewed human beings as blank slates that are shaped by our environment. While we are strongly shaped by our environment, case studies of separated identical twins show that many psychological traits are strongly biological, while almost all traits are a mix of both. If an identical clone with the same DNA as you is trans, the chances of you being trans are only ~50%
  • We can be any gender and gender differences are purely cultural. Western philosophy has a strong bias towards believing in free will; that everyone is created equal and that we each have the freedom of self determination. We are rational beings that aren't constrained by nature like simple animals that operate purely on instinct. These ideas are more reflective of what we want to believe and what is useful to believe.

The last case study I'll mention is the case of the guy who was forcibly feminized and gaslit into believing he was a girl. After a botched circumcision that completely destroyed his phallus, David Reimer's parents were told that they should just raise him as female. They touted "Brenda" as proof of gender being arbitrary, even as David began to insist that he was a boy. He was given estrogen and experienced crippling gender dysphoria as a result. When he was finally told the truth, he adopted a male identity.

Sadly, David committed suicide at the age of 38, going public with his story before then. Over the 3 decades that his false story was left uncontested, the view of his psychologist had dominated, doing irreparable damage to gender science. Afterall, if a cis boy could be made a girl, why couldn't intersex and trans people just live as the gender they were told they were?

The truth doesn't just undermine gender, but fundamental biases embedded in most people believe about the world. False ideas can be more useful that unfortunate truths, as believing in free will, believing in self determination, believing that things are just and fair helps the machinery ramble on. You're more likely to succeed if you think you can, so believing we have control of ourselves is appealing.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 1 week ago (4 children)

It's just to get past dumb algorithms that suppress anything remotely adult. The rich fuckers who control our financial system think they can enforce prudish "Christian values" on everybody. Sex workers can't get paid despite following the law, while advertisers only do business where all queer content gets treated like pornography.

It's absolutely vile and abhorrent how they work their influence into everything. They never waited for project 2025 to push their twisted morality, as Christian conservatives have always used capitalism to control culture.

This is why spaces like lemmy are so important; they allow us to exchange ideas without capitalist meddling. The assholes who support child marriage while calling us groomers can eat a bag of nuclear waste.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I'm a degenerate who chews gum around others (I always dispose of it properly of course :)

All of these faces make physical sense, while AI art often doesn't.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 week ago (4 children)

BG porn text from what I could see:

Your dick-

Oh baby give-

I'm gonna

Imma or in a

You got no pan- (?)

Ow!

Ow!

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 1 week ago (7 children)

It's not just about noise from your speakers, but noise from your mouth 🥵

The opposite of love isn't hate, so girlfriend is closer to girlfoe than to girlstranger ☝️

You might be right, but it is gatekeeping, and that argument itself isn't an argument I give much merit. People don't need hormones to transition, nor do they need to change their bodies. A consensus for gender isn't something that often works in our favor, even for binary trans folks like me.

The way we characterize species is wack. The whole origin of species is that we like to categorize. Evolution doesn't care about our classifications; only that the organisms can continue replicating. Classifications are just mental boxes that serve a purpose, not anything real. There is no spoon except in our mind.

Like I said, I suspect there is something more to other kin than gender, as they might be simply using the only language they have available. If there is to be another way to define them, it must come from them. When cishets try to categorize trans people, they often use the categories to constrain us, so I'll let the other kin handle how they're defined. Living without having a perfect way of labeling them is hard, but I won't be part of efforts to force them into a box.

Science can get us closer to fundamental truth, but like the speed of light, it isn't something we have any hope of reaching.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 week ago (4 children)

IP, like every part of capitalism, has been totally turned against the artists it claimed to protect. If they want it to only be a chain that binds us, we need to break it. They had their chance to make it work for workers, and they squashed it. If we can't buy into the system, we have every reason to oppose it.

On a large scale, this will come in the form of "crime," not revolutionary action. With no social contract binding anyone voluntarily, people will do what they must to serve their own interests. Any criminal activity that weakens the system more than the people must be supported whole heartedly. Smuggling and theft from the wealthy; true Robin Hood marks; are worthy of support. Vengeance from those scarred by the system is more justice than state justice. Revolution isn't what the fat cats need to fear.

I'm not saying it's doomed! I literally said that it's cool and useful. It's a revolutionary technology in many respects, but not for everything. It cannot replace the things computers have always been good at, but business people don't seem to realize that. They assume that it can fix anything, not understanding that it will only make certain things worse. The trade-off is counterproductive for tasks where you need consistent indexing.

For instance, Google's search AI turns primary sources into secondary or tertiary sources by trying to cut corners. I have zero trust in anything it tries to tell me, while all the problems it had before AI have continued to worsen. They could've used machine learning to better understand search queries, or diversify results to compensate for vagueness in language, or to fucking combat SEO, but they instead clog up the results with even more bullshit! It's a war against curiosity at this point! 😫

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

He always seemed like a theatre kid, so it's not really surprising.

Marketing American products with American culture? It's not that bad all things considered. Enjoying this country's natural beauty on a Harley is a genuine vibe that exists here. American motorcycle culture isn't just a Hollywood creation, but a real thing.

It is still marketing, but it probably is true. I wouldn't doubt that a German dude could've genuinely experienced what he saw in movies and found a bunch of cool foods along the way. There are plenty of cool restaurants on the road, and when you're traveling long distances, finding cool places to eat is a big part of the experience. He probably enjoyed simple staples like maple syrup, which is delicious.

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