ShareMySims

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[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 3 points 48 minutes ago* (last edited 42 minutes ago)

That's fair enough, don't worry about it.

The reason I ask though, is that there is a difference, and I do think it's something that you'd benefit from exploring critically, not with a bunch of strangers online, but with yourself in your own time as you grow older and start forming your own relationships (I saw you mention that you're monogamous yourself, that's cool, this is less about that though and more about recognising potential imbalances in relationships in general, and the issues those can cause).

And just to be clear - I'm not assuming there is anything wrong or unhealthy or anything like that about your family, non-nuclear/"traditional" families are perfectly valid, and I essentially know nothing about you and your lives. But I do know that we live in a society where men and women aren't treated or socialised equally, and that recognising this and how it impacts on our lives is both important and beneficial, even if slightly uncomfortable at times. E: and to be even more clear, this is an examination we all can benefit from doing, since all our relationships are impacted.

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 hour ago

Ooh, billionaires love a good competition!

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

So then when you say poly, you mean polygamy/polygyny (though he isn't married to them all), rather than polyamory?

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 hour ago (4 children)

Are your mother and the other women also allowed to/interested in having other relationships?

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 hour ago

Depends how much elon and the other billionaires who own the government offer them, probably..

 

ID: Grilled Cheese Enthusiast @Grilledmelt posted: "Shark Tank, but it's just a big tank of sharks and the show is different billionaires being tossed in periodically"

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

It would!

E: I wish I could find the original artist

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 hours ago

I’m very much out of touch with most popular shows and games and such lol

Having said that, I looked it up, and if you're asking seriously and not just making a reference that's gone over my head, I think the answer could be any really, depending on the person and what other skills they have.

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 hours ago

Oh, it might be! I'm very much out of touch with most popular shows and games and such lol

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 19 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (6 children)

I'm assuming it's that your raiding party are the people you do direct action with, and having a seamstress among you is super useful and important because they can not only create and mend clothes and other useful items like blankets and tents and banners, but in a real bind they could potentially sew up a wound, too!

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 6 points 6 hours ago

Dystopia hipster lol, you were doing it before it was cool!

 

ID: existennialmemes posted:

Instead of "How are You?" try these Dystopia-Friendly alternatives:

  • I see you're awake, my condolences

  • I hope you have some strong coffee

  • I can't wait for the aliens to invade the earth

  • You need to find a seamstress for your raiding party

  • Did any of your crops survive the heatwave?

  • I sure hope this reality is just a simulation

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 4 points 8 hours ago

Sure thing, the lengths some people will go to to defend their cognitive dissonance is ridiculous..

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 6 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (5 children)

Also, those claiming to have no source on Powell being on the team that negotiated Pinochet's release, only prove they've not only not actually gone looking for one, but haven't even read op article, where the source is linked:

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2001/jan/07/chile.pinochet

And it isn't the only contemporary source, either:

https://www.wsws.org/en/articles/2001/08/chil-a30.html

As well as sources that confirms that Powell promoted deals with Saudi Arabia for a company that also paid £1m to Pinochet:

https://caat.org.uk/news/2005-09-27-2/

You can make as many excuses as you want to make yourselves feel better, but it will never magic these people in to being on our side as citizens.

 

ID: Bold multicoloured text "Be the reason why someone feels included, welcomed, supported, safe, and valued."


This one comes with an exception, to paraphrase: you can't be welcoming to everyone, because letting certain people in is inherently harmful to others. See the paradox of tolerance and social contract theory

 

ID: a black flag with white text "fight war not wars, destroy power not people"

 

ID: All I Want to Do is SCREAM:

Seize the means of production

Create a classless society

Realize our potential as a species

Establish Fully Automated Luxury Queer Earth Anarchism

Actualize our utopian dreams

Make cool shit because we're not trapped in this dystopian hellscape

 

ID: line drawing of an upright bunny with a black bandana tied around their neck, holding a lit match in their mouth like you might a toothpick. The text says "we can't just vote fascism away, the time has come to disobey. (be brave!)"

 

ID: Text in the style of the "the more you know" slogan which says "remember your roots". Under the text instead of a shooting star with a rainbow trail is a red brick with a sparkly progress flag as its trail

 

ID: a drawing of a bunny with a person's hand covering their face, at the top it says "don't look mr. fluffers, that bad man trump is on the telly again"

 

ID: drawing of a friendly little frog holding a lit Molotov cocktail, around them it says "be the light you want to see in the world"

 

ID: 3 stills from A Bullet for Baldwin (1956)

  1. Alfred Hitchcock says "I've just come into possession of a cure for fascism"

  2. He sets some bullets on his desk and says "they come in capsule form. For best results, they must be taken internally."

  3. He holds up a revolver and says "here is the handy applicator."

 

The DWP confirms that draconian ‘savings’ are coming down the track. Are we a nation that will repair hospitals, but not help a nurse with long Covid?

In the days after the budget, the headlines were dominated by talk of Rachel Reeves’s “tax and spend” bonanza. The message was clear: austerity is officially over. When there was concern about squeezed incomes, it was solely for workers. As the Mail front page put it: “Reeves’ £40bn tax bombshell for Britain’s strivers”. Almost a week later, there has still barely been a word about the policy set to hit the group long scapegoated as Britain’s skivers: the billions of pounds’ worth of benefit cuts for disabled people.

Making up just a couple of lines in a 77-minute speech, you’d have been forgiven for dozing past Reeves’ blink-and-you’d-miss-it bombshell. With a record number of Britons off work with long-term illness, the government will need to “reduce the benefits bill”, she said, before noting ministers had “inherited” the Conservatives’ plans to reform the work capability assessment (WCA). That plan, let’s not forget, was to take up to £4,900 a year each from 450,000 people who are too sick or disabled to work – a move that the Resolution Foundation says would “degrade living standards” for families already on some of the lowest incomes in the country.

That’s on top of Tory proposals to tighten eligibility for personal independence payments (Pip) – which Labour has been consulting on since the election – that would push the cuts to a steep £3bn.

“We will deliver those savings as part of our fundamental reforms to the health and disability benefits system that the work and pensions secretary [Liz Kendall] will bring forward,” Reeves went on. It turns out austerity isn’t over for everyone.

It’s no wonder that many disabled people – and charities and journalists for that matter – thought this meant Labour would implement the outgoing Tory policies. In fact, the government has no such plan. When I spoke to the Department for Work and Pensions, it confirmed it will make the same “savings” the last government committed to – but it cannot as yet say how those savings will be made.

A spokesperson confirmed to me that the WCA needs to be “reformed or replaced as part of a proper plan to genuinely support disabled people into work – bringing down the benefits bill and ensuring we continue to deliver the savings set out by the previous government. But these sorts of changes shouldn’t be made in haste. That’s why we’re taking the time to review this in the round before setting out next steps on our approach.” When I pressed, they added that changes to the WCA – whatever they may be – will come into effect in early 2025.

There is something faintly ludicrous about the government announcing billions of pounds of cuts to disability benefits before working out how it is going to do it, akin to the Child Catcher wielding a big net and not caring who it is he traps. It is right that the WCA – long known to be a dangerously faulty assessment – is consigned to the scrapheap. But “reform” should not mean less funding, and reducing funding should not be the purpose of reform.

Much like when George Osborne aimed to cut the disability benefits bill by a fifth, “welfare reform” based on arbitrary cost-cutting says the quiet part out loud: benefits won’t be awarded based on who needs them – just on what they cost. It is social security by spreadsheet, severing the social contract that promises the state will be there in times of sickness and disability, and adding a footnote that says, “but only if we can afford it”. That last week’s budget revealed huge investment for infrastructure at the same time as disability benefit cuts exposes how even the affordability argument is largely fabricated. There is money to fix hospital buildings but not to feed a nurse bedbound with long Covid.

The financial impact of such “reform” on those relying on benefits is well established but the psychological toll should not be underestimated. Since gaining power, Labour has drip-fed the rightwing press sound bites and op-eds on potential benefit cuts, leaving news outlets to speculate wildly for clicks. The budget’s half-announcement has only added to the confusion and fear, issuing vague dog whistles of “fraud” and high “benefit bills” while forcing millions of people to wait months to find out if they will lose the money they need to live.

It is not simply that such delays create uncertainty for those affected, they also create space and legitimacy for a politics of resentment and prejudice. In the days after the budget, Reform MP Rupert Lowe took to X to list some of the health conditions people receive Pip for and pronounce to his followers which ones were least-deserving. Hours later, former Sunday Times political editor Isabel Oakeshott went on TalkTV to call disability benefit recipients “parasites”.

It would be easy to say this stuff is repulsive – it is – but it is also a very real symptom of years of stagnating wages, high bills, pressured public services and a media ecosystem that too often distorts and divides. Crudely, these conditions do two things to a population that we are already seeing fester in Britain: they make some people sick and reliant on the safety net – and they turn other people against them.

By the end of this parliament, the Office for Budget Responsibility says, half of all claims for the main benefit will be on health grounds, as the impact of NHS delays, a pandemic and increasing poverty continues to bite. As Labour mulls over what it will cost our society to provide this support, it might be worth considering what it would cost us not to. That particular price cannot be measured in bills and debt but is altogether more ruinous: a nation doomed to repeat the same mistakes, growing ever meaner and colder towards those who have less.

That Kemi Badenoch – a small-state zealot whose culture war targets include autistic children – is now leader of the opposition only reinforces the urgency of a Labour government that stokes the best, not worst, of our instincts. By its own timeline, the party now has a few months to hunt for its conscience. Disabled people can only hope it finds it.

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