It depends, mostly on how consumed my local girlfriend is with work. When she's not on a major case, usually once a day, or 2-3 times if we are both off from work on the same day, though that doesn't happen often. Otherwise, a few times a week with more casual partners. I've only been in the same place as my distance girlfriend once, but that was a crazy fucking week.
Ideally, at least one long fuck and a couple quick ones a day. Though I wouldn't say no to more.
BTW, I'm not cheating; everyone involved knows it's not exclusive. ♥
I'm disappointed to see that voting is leaning towards a ban. I'm not remotely interested in scat, but it isn't a big deal to block those communities, as I was doing before they were shut down.
I guess someone could make lemmyscat.com, targeting both the kink and Lemmy users with feline pets.