Bloom

joined 9 months ago
[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 month ago

Yay! That’s huge, I am happy for you!!

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 4 months ago

Yay, I am so happy to read this!! You have a big heart! Thanks for spreading love in this world

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 4 months ago

Looks cute!!

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I’d love to join too ! I don’t know any communities on Matrix, but if there’s none we can start one

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 5 months ago

Trans girl checking in! 🏳️‍⚧️ 😇

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

My week was emotional but good! I finally came out to my brother as trans. I was so scared for his reaction.

I prepared a letter, I read it out loud to him half crying and I noticed he had watery eyes too. When I finished reading he hugged me 🥰 and said he just want me to be happy and I felt soooo relieved. Afterwards I received a very thoughtful and supportive message from his gf, who I told him could tell too later. This helps me so much with accepting myself for who I am.

I also baked a cheese cake and some french pastries for an Easter brunch at my mom’s. The brunch was great!

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I see it a bit differently. I think your role in life is whatever you define it to be. Whatever makes you happy.

Would you say any infertile woman is not a woman? Did they fail life because of it? Would you say people that don’t want children are neither men nor women? Is there a difference between being female and male? Sure! But not being able to bear a child doesn’t disqualify you as a woman. Gender is just a construct society made up.

It’s good to question your identity, so you can be who you truly are.

Edit: No reply.. I was hoping for a good discussion, but I guess that’s out of the question as you did reply with insensitive and superficial comments to others 🤷‍♀️ You can do better

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 5 months ago

Yay! Congratz Kaityy ! Welcomee 🥰

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 6 months ago

I really enjoyed Coral Island. Buuut I haven’t finished it so minor disclaimer ☺️ It’s like a mix of the Sims and a simple farming sim.

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 6 months ago

Zea couldn’t have said it better haha

For me it helps a lot to talk about it. About all of it really! About what bothers me, what gives me joy and anything in between.

I recently joined a group therapy while I wait for a specialist to talk to. I hesitated going to the group sessions, because it was scary to be so vulnerable to complete strangers, but I’m so glad I did it! It helps to see others struggle with similar stuff and hear how they deal with it. And everyone is so helpful and supportive! I love it 🥰

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Woow! You look a-mazing, it’s really cute!

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 6 months ago

Oh yes I read something similar on the 60-80% thingy. I started measuring my biceps circumference to make seeing results a bit more tangible.

Let me know what worked for you, I’m interested too !

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An Unexpected Dress (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

[CW?: supportive family member]

Hii girls! Omg I just had an amazing experience with my mom and I needed to share. My mom and I have been chatting about online shopping and my mom had just bought some dress and a maxi skirt. She showed me both and I said they both look cute and how she had such a good taste.

Then she explained the dress didn’t really fit her well and then I noticed she hesitated to ask me something. And I was like mommm what’s up and she asks me if I wanted to try the dress. I said yes!! Omg and girls the dress looked so unexpectedly great on me I almost cried. I needed a hug and told my mom this made me so happy. She was like: ooohh but then it’s so clear to me now. It’s so clear. 🥰 She told my I could have the dress 😊 Then she pulled out other dresses for me to try.

I told her it was so great to have our first “mother daughter”-moment and we both had tears in our eyes of happiness. That’s allll! Sending you all my love ❤️

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