Arte

joined 1 year ago
[–] Arte@kbin.social 18 points 1 year ago

Also don’t try to stay to “fix” it, because there’s literally no point and you’re just going to give your abuser extra time to hurt you more and jeopardize your chances of being able to leave, and in all honesty don’t tell your abuser you’re leaving.

Secure a safe place, have your most important stuff packed, and just go. You likely won’t have the time or energy to pack every single thing, and trying to is just probably going to backfire on you. Make sure location services are turned off or disabled, and if necessary do a factory reset on the phone and/or computer if you think it’s been tampered with. Also change your number as soon as possible if they start trying to bombard your communications, and be careful to also stay safe away from flying monkeys.

Fuck abusive assholes