1hotpoetaytoe

joined 5 months ago
[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 months ago

Why people gotta act crazy. Just be cool 😎 I’m here to relax.

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 months ago

I am an ambiguous bi-racial POC to strangers and when I travel internationally people often assume I am whatever they are. When I was in Brazil a native Brazilian spoke to me as if I understood Portuguese. I responded in my rudimentary SoCal Spanish that I did not understand. It was so subconscious and embarrassing. Years later I now have the language to recognize this for the micro aggression that it was. I consider myself to have cultural consciousness and I totally stumbled. I cannot even imagine if she were to wander outside of her pod out of the insulted hospitality sector where English is spoken😬Out in the wild on the streets she would look like the biggest mark for the taking oozing awkward visible discomfort. All while giving her “don’t they know who I am vibe”. Hot mess express coming through 🚂 São Paulo can be an overwhelming city to the worldliest traveler to say the least. She is not even a traveler she is a vacationer.

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 months ago (6 children)

I was heading out the door and skimmed it real quick. I was totally confused. Way above my lazy comprehension Reddit pay grade. No idea what was going on there. I was going to deep dive upon return and it’s gone 🫤 I was looking forward to some possible tea.

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I have mostly decided to become unbothered by this lady but I am stressed and bored and acting out😂 I cannot believe someone pays her for this nonsense. So much to unpack here, the giant sunglasses indoors, the hideous pockets! And guys you can wear the pieces together or separate!!! Thank goodness she mentioned that or I would have not thought such things possible! WHY WOULD SHE EVEN SAY THAT! Does she think her followers do not know that 🙄

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

Like shocked and surprised there are so many POC 🫢 so threatened, so unsafe by other types of people existing in their homelands. She is in for a culture shock that is for sure!

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 months ago

And that hand placement, oof, so desperate and cringe.

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Someone has to pay for that remodel and it’s certainly not going to be her by actually producing marketable content!

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 months ago

Super entertaining, felt like the good ole days over there! I just follow along now. I don’t want to be the one to accidentally say the wrong thing and get it shut down and ruin everyone’s day😬

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Are you Canadian? Just curious how much dorming costs are? My son goes to a state school in SoCal and it costs me just under 10K per year living at home. Dorming would triple costs 😵‍💫

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago

Even if L knows what is happening (shows her the video)she definitely cannot conceptualize “the internet is forever” impact of being exploited at 3 years old! Some of her followers are parasocial weirdos out there obsessing over that kid. Enough is enough.

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Hopefully M can just slip into the night into her new life without the whole circus coming to town. How could they possible leave NanaK and Papa at home for drop off!!! Cue 12 passenger van pulls in front of the dorms with the entire family…surprise….

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

As she reminds M it’s not about M because she didn’t get to go. Or pressuring her into over the top dorm room decor. The possibilities for embarrassment are endless. I am presuming their father will be involved and put a squash on Birdies SM engagement needs. But you know she will try and sneak L in some merch to out M’s privacy. “While we were attempting to protect M’s privacy we completely spaced that L was wearing that sweater” or some BS. She will mention the city they are driving to, I just have a feeling she will 100% not be protecting her daughters much wanted privacy in some passive way.

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